So my boyfriend is 47, and not the most good looking guy. Anyways I'm always horny and he says he is always horny. But when we get into it he has an issue getting an irrection and keepin it, he might get one every 5 times but it won't last long. He says I'm only the 2nd girl this has happened with, he usually dates ugly fattys. So now the only thing that has been helping is those pills u get at sex stores.. and we've tried a lot.. toys, porn, oils, outfits, even anal ( and I was completely against that before I met him) ect. And nothing has worked. So is it me? Does he not want skinny and hot? Is he secretly gay? It'd be easier just to leave him, but I love him. So I'm trying to make this work. But if there's no way for sex, I've got to move on. I can't spend 20 yrs without! Plz help
He may be suffering from ED (Erectile Dysfunction) and should see his physician Before you proceed check out a few porn sites together which feature as you’ve described “ugly fatties” and see if he gets a rise out of it Hotwater
Do not let this man put his issues on you. He has the problem. Tell him to go see a Dr about his dick issues...honey it is not you.
No, its not you..lots of things can do this.. He is worried about failing He thinks things over too much Takes drugs Has a genuine problem down there, but its not you. I say if sex is important to you..let him go.
In the morning is his penis erect?...Yes? - then the problem is not physical. No? - he has a physical problem.
Well, the text version was painful enough, I'd hate to hear the spoken version Nag him constantly why he wont stay hard Could only possibly be his fault, what was I thinking
sometimes the skinny hot ones have horrible personalities and/or hygiene difficulty and it makes our dinks shrink....try as we might....cant fuck a stinky hole all night
Happens to men around that age. Have him go to the doctor. You both sound like you are meant for each other...you think he's ugly. Maybe your opinion of him not being good looking is coming across in other ways. Ugly fatties... Wow..I won't go there. It has happened with a guy I was with. He made sure that he made up for it in other ways and reassured me it wasn't me. It was mediciation he was on. Doctor or leave him. You decide.
yes, he's secretly gay. i know it although i'm just some anonymous guy who's never met either you or your boyfriend. you should completely trust what strangers on the internet say, instead of just asking people in your life. on a side note, the ''irrection'' doesn't come up by forcing it to. if you haven't figured that one out....
But wont help with the worrying that he is secretly gay. *cue a bunch of guys to come back with OMG! Ramming things up your bum and fuckin lovin it doesnt make you a homo...theres no place like home, theres no place like home
Wow...what a heartless person. Do you have any idea the effect that a problem like that can have on a man? He may be nervous and think that she is beautiful, that she is too good for him and he just doesn't measure up. That could lead to a bad case of performance anxiety. It could become a cycle, actually making him weary of sex due to the lack of performance. There are more issues than just being a "limp dick mofo" You're a sad excuse for a woman if that is your go to thought.
