Alternatives to hormones. (Male, looking for women's insight)

So here's the deal, my girlfriend of 11 months (we've been friends 2 years prior) has Polycystic ovary syndrome) One is the size of a golf ball but the doctors are monitoring it. Here's the thing, I am her "first" so she was put on the pill by her doctor before we met to try and regulate her cycle but at 19 she went almost a year and a half without her period. She is now 25 and off the pill but we use a condom every time. So now of course were here, we start skin on skin but she makes me wrap it after a few mins, ( we both want to go "bareback" for the feeling and intimacy) Her doctor says if she goes on hormones again it could upset her finally normal cycle and if the cysts get worse and need to be removed, increases the chance of her not being able to have a child down the road. We want children together, just not at this time. Some of you must be or have been in this situation.

 

What exactly is your question?

I was "diagnosed" with PCOS. I had ovarian cysts but they were "normal" cysts that all women have, so I quit the medicine for PCOS. I stayed on BC pills. I was on the pill when I got pregnant with my first child @ 27.

Why would removing the cysts affect her ability to have children?

Some people are able to have children and some are not. Knowing that she wants kids, she should do whatever will increase her chances of having a child. But just because you want something, doesn't mean it will happen.

Some people are childless, some have children with defects (some can be deadly) and some miscarry. I had a miscarriage and I don't know how some women find the strength to keep trying.