Alternative Names For Male Dominant Partner

Well said pink_lioness, that's bang-on in my book. I wanted to post here after reading all the replies but you've already put into words what I was thinking.

I'm always wary of prescriptive descriptions of a 'real' Dom or sub. I meet D/s couples at munches and events and this trait doesn't reflect the lifestyle in general.

For me as a Dom I would be very concerned for a sub in that situation though and would find it almost impossible to develop the D/s dynamic without resolving the more important issue of abuse.

 

Director?

Demander?

your Decadence?

Defiler?


dunno.....

 

wow people on here are kinda rude and unrespecting of this girls feelings. as someone who's personally been molested, i can relate to what this girl is feeling and completely understand. when the incident happened, i was with an ex who had a rape fantasy and i agreed to it despite my feelings. and it hurt me more because of what i was going through. theres no such thing as a "true sub" because every relationship is different. maybe enforcer, ruler, highness, king

 

There's no real good alternative to "daddy". Everything else seems too forced. The only thing even close I can think of is "seniore".

 

Dude, I'm an adult survivor too. I felt really weird psychologically after the first time I successfully had anal sex thinking shit like I was turning into my abuser. God bless her soul the girl it happened with told me not to be such a fucking pussy since she enjoyed it too. For me it has been very healing to do it. I've generally been the dominant type in most sexual situations and have found that it has opened lines of communication if done right. Your issues are exactly that.

C/S,
Rev J

 

Bill.

 

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