Almost 23 And I Have Never Had Sex

I was a virgin till I was 23; I felt like the whole human race was in on something great and I just didn't get it. Felt like a real outsider.
I was always socially awkward.

Then I had sex with my female roommate when I was moving out, then I went to a whorehouse (that felt like a waste of money, I would have enjoyed jacking off just as much).

Hang in there, it will happen for you.

 

nope

it was probably just your in your browser cache

needs to be a proper jpg or whatever image link instead of the one that keeps posting with no extension

also some hosting sites have the links rigged so they change ...forcing you to click on it to their site for advertising purposes and traffic statistics

 

Thanks. How was the sex with the female roommate tho lol? Do you mind explaining how that happened?

 

i think it's your second option. since 1) the other guy was also able to see it and nobody else chimed in and said it wasn't working, and 2) it was a proper jpg link. i went to the site and took it from the picture there, i didn't just copy what his post showed. right now it's this: http:// www .picpaste. com/pics/Snapshot_20170227_2-RshURRG0.1489198513.JPG which looks like a valid image link to me. i'll try to remember to check again tomorrow and see if it's different.

edit: added spaces to image URL to hopefully make it not appear as a link

 

edit: i may or may not lose my virginity off of Tinder this weekend, I just got a match

 

I felt pretty awkward at it. She was experienced, she had a boyfriend that would stay over and I could hear them in the next room, drove me crazy.
I felt inadequate but at the same time elated that I had finally got that hurdle out of the way. Now I was ready to participate in normal life.......at least the sex part.

By the way, love your screen name.

 

Thanks, that name is how i feel atm lol. I am so similar, my neighbors fuck all the time and hearing it drives me insane. Did you tell her you were a virgin, and how did the sex initiate? Was she still in the relationship when she had sex with you?

I've thought about waiting but honestly i think i will just try to have sex because the way i feel is not healthy

 

http:// www .picpaste. com/pics/Snapshot_20170227_2-RshURRG0.1489264343.JPG

and this was the link today. OP will need to upload to a better image hosting site if he wants to post pics in forums.

 

I don't get it, what is the big deal? why are young women so repulsed by this person that none of them will give me a chance? Why is it so hard to get laid?

 

Have you tried dating sites? badoo? POF?

 

yup. tinder too

 

Just stick at it mate.I can't see any reason why you won't meet someone.Negative vibes you give off might not help though.

 

I always just thought i was ugly, but i am getting pretty negative these days. I'm so angry and sad all the time that i lose my cool at the slightest things. Believe it or not lack of sex will do that to you

 

What about friends? Aren't there a few of you that can go to some clubs etc? What about hobbies?Have you not got friends/family you can talk to? Maybe you should talk to your Doctor? Don't let the bad stuff build up.

 

No friends anymore, just my parents and sister. My parents are old too, 60 and i am stuck in minimum wage bullshit in virtual poverty

 

IMO you need to get yourself out and about.Take up some hobbies/pastimes.Not everything costs money.You got a dog? Always a good way to meet Women.Or if you haven't got one ask a neighbour if you can walk there's or help out at a shelter.You need to put yourself places where you will talk to/meet new people.If the thought of doing stuff like that horrifies you then you need to talk to a Dr.I have 'issues' and find Anti depressants help me cope with similar kind of stuff.I know not everyone will agree and they don't suit everyone but they can help.

 

Meeting people is a good place to start. I need to heal on the inside as well, a lot of old wounds

 

Then if you can,talk to a Dr.
Hope you get yourself sorted soon.Life's too short and you CAN put thing's right.if not on your own then with a little help.

 

I think you've got it right there. I felt ugly and undesirable till I was in my 30's, then I realized I was attractive to some women; you don't have to be classically good looking.
You're not ugly dude, really, you're not.

I think, like you said, you just need to get where you feel that you are desirable, and worthy of getting close with someone.
I know it sucks right now, but if you can get through it, better times are on the other side.

 

Thanks. I really don't want to have to wait until my 30s. Maybe a year or so of hard work on myself if i am lucky