All I want is some discipline! Why wont he give me that?

actually, 17 year old swedish girls who like to be spanked are generally pretty popular

why do you want to dump him?

 

To me things like ''I wouldn't spank a cutter either'' feels like shaming. It may not have been your intention, but to me, telling her she doesn't deserve what she desires because she is ''a cutter'' seems insensitive and unfair. She never mentioned any of this in this thread, nor in that other thread where she was looking advice because she didn't like sex, but you brought it up in both threads. She's talking about something completely different and you are flashing her problems in her face.

Maybe it's just me though, I dunno. I apologize for being confrontational and I don't mean any disrespect, it's just the way I see it makes me feel sad for her.

 

Oh and Tayworrr, I read a pretty interesting quote today that might resonate with you.

It said ''We accept the love we think we deserve''

Think about that.

 

Yeah. Heard it before. Lol the funny thing is that I dont understand it.

 

If you accept the love you think you deserve, what kind of love do you think you would accept when you say ''No one wants a girl like me.'' ?

 

I suppose, but its hard to find someone who'll do it... Because I feel like he only wants me for sex. And everytime my dog is around he barely cares abt me at all.

 

tayworr, are you ok out there? Things, issues, problems, grief that may seem huge right now become so much less important or painful as time goes on. Hang in there. But if you really want a spanking I will do it! And if you really are 17 we will have some great sex!

 

Yeah and theres the problem... Sex... not into it at all.

 

hmm I think I understand what u mean.
Its just, I've asked out soooo many guys and everyone always tells me how weird I am or how ugly I am.

 

Well that's OK sex isn't everything! I have never had a friend who liked spanking but I know that it is pretty popular. Can I ask you to describe why you like it? The reason I ask is that I am just curious. I am also curious about how hard you like to be spanked. Is a light spanking good or does it have to hurt a little?

 

aint like "mental health" for ppl w serious problems?

yhh since idk what a PM is I posted on ur thread. n I'm sowwy to hear abt ur cousin, but yh it is quite common

 

Who tells you this other 17 year olds? It takes courage to ask someone out so for doing so you are courageous! It is fun to be weird. some of the people who I have heard say they are ugly are actually quite beautiful but they never believe it so I won't waste my time (besides I have never seen you). If you are truly ugly then just accept it, you can still have a great life!

 

no we all have our own problems anyone does .

 

hmm describe, eh?

I dont really know why I like it, just do xD.
I suppose it has to hurt a lot.
I want to be spanked cuz my parents never disciplined me, I could do whatever I wanted they didnt really say much they were like "oh well, just dont do it again".

 

Nah, more like everyone in my class, we have some that are 17 some are 16 n we have a few 19 too. And my dad has said it a few times aswell.

I dont see myself as THAT ugly, but since I cant get a guy to like me then I just guess I am.

 

If you do not see yourself as "that ugly" then you probably are not ugly becasue people tend to be harder on themselves than others would be.

 

yh I could but I only feel like I put my depression n problems on u guys. n I've already done that on twitter n I'm not so popular there anymore.

 

Don't worry about that. Some people enjoy helping other people. I was a very depressed kid myself and now I look back and I sometimes have a hard time believing that I let certain things bother me. I think that helping other people is the best thing you can do. Right now I feel like giving you a hug but my arms are not long enough. Other people can see things that you can't or won't want to at a particular time.

 

tayworr I have to go home now but here is an email address you can write me at. I would like to keep this dialog going if you would like to. If you write me I will reply back. westweb45@yahoo.com

Hang in there, better days are coming! Someone once said that to me. I guess because my feelings were showing. He was right of course.

 

Yes n I'm VERY thankful for that!

Heh, u can always try xD.

yeah