I think I have a slight problem of rushing sex. I've had some fuck buddies before and it was all fast fun, my last bf was so disgusting that when we were having sex I would try and make him finish fast so he would get off me. So I think I am used to fast fucking. I think all guys want to get their rocks off quickly, and I get into a mind set of me being there to satisfy that part for him. I then suffer from performance anxiety because I am trying so hard to please him rather than enjoy myself. So I have recently not had any meaningful and intense sexual experiences. I have trouble being selfish, it is not in my nature. But do any of you have any advice on how I should go about trying to relax and enjoy it, and make it last? And to be clear I do not currently have a bf, just sex with guys, so there's no hugs or lovey dovey stuff. Just the sex.
