alcoholic

nah man shes a boozebinginbitch

 

fuck you asshole! & what the fuck are you but a stonedtillyourbraindeadasshole?

toeveryone else who gave constructive advice, especialy Keramptha thank you
& to whoever made the comment about not being an alcaholic if you quite drinking, thats ignorance, alcaholism isa disease, not an addiction, once your an alcaholic, 1 tiny sip 10 years later will cause you to fall right back into it
once your an alcaholic, 1 drink is too muchj, cause it will always lead to another..

& everyone else yea i agree her family & freindsare her biggest problem

 

This girl's story sounds entirely fabricated. I think she probably has just had a few wine coolers that her and her friends snuck from their parents fridge and now she's claiming that she's an alchy.

If any of this is real, you need to calm your lifestyle down. 14 year old girls should not be binging on alcohol or stumbling down streets yelling about needing to get laid.

Keep the bottle down and the pants up.

 

omg..grr..im getting to the point where if one more person tells me that my life isnt even true or actually happening that im just going to keep everything in until i explode so bad im dead!...i wouldnt write about my life or all these people to read if it weren't true....and im sorry but only having a couple coolers wont do fuck all! and the only good coolers are the ones that are 7%..5% isnt that bad but its not as good cause its not as strong!....and since alot of you guys are just giving me unhelpful critisim, or calling me a booze bingin bitch!, i am happy to report that the weekend coming up i will not be drinking..i was told that if i do lance will be more than disappointed in me and he might just break up with me, so im not going to drink next weekend....and to keep me all pre-occupied hes planned all this shit for us..he wants to go out for supper friday night, then rent movies, then camping.saturday he wants to go to the mall, theatre.sunday he has to work at 3 p.m. so he wants to get up early and go for breakfast.....now if i can do all this and not have a drink, that will prove to me, and to everyone else, right there, that i am NOT an alcoholic!! because i know im not, but it'll just prove it!

 

um...yeah!

I can't believe you've never heard this...

 

Check this out, it may help us caring folks to understand what is going on with this young person......

lil miss, i hope you read and study this,as this information could make your life much more manageable and take some pressure off of you. there is nothing "wrong with you" you simply need to figure out what you are going to do that is strange and bizarrre, without harming your precious self! And because i know you are super smart and highly creative, i know you will find a way! Remember, you were born with a very important mission, to teach us, society,valuable lessons!! Find that in a creative, fun and Outrageous way, and fulfill your destiny. God bless you!~~~~~~~ love otter!

From Gary Goldshneider's "Secret Language of Birthdays"

December 14 (lil miss's birthday)
The Day Of Selective Exhibitionist
December 14 people often impress others as exhibitionists, but in fact those born on this day are highly selective about when, how and under what circumstances they allow themselves or their work to be viewed. Indeed, although they are not infrequently public individuals who are very much in the limelight, they inhabit their own private world into which very few ever gain admittance. It is as if they live in a house doing the most astonishing things but only open the blinds when it suits them to do so. Thus, most often they only let people view what they are doing, less often what they are thinking and hardly at all who they really are. Actually, seeming to reveal a great deal can be the best way to conceal what is most private.
December 14 people are often extremely complex, profound, complicated individuals. Many areas in their lives, including sexual preferences, hobbies, habits, And psychological indulgences are of a rather unusal, even bizarre nature. Highly philosophical as well, they can operate by principles which justify their singular behavior. They most often recognize from an early age that they are not like other people. Normally conflicts that arise with authority figures such as parents or teachers drive this point home to them. They become self- conscious but also prone to flaunting what others may consider bad or strange habits. It is usually impossible, and certainly not advisable, for parents to try to fit a december 14 child into some preordained mold. This simply will not work, for even if it seems initially successful it can cause enormous problems down the road, not to mention latent anger, rebellion and resentment directed at the parent. Such feelings may also be transferred onto those with whom December 14 people are later involved or onto society at large.

December 14 people are daring (but not reckless) individuals. They display little fear and when necessary do not hesitate to put themselves into harm's way. The temptation, however, for them to outrage others with their behavior is very great. This is not always a superficial or immature impulse. Often they manage to teach others through provocation and stimulation, challenging the staus quo through their own example. They can be catalysts for change whether it be in their family, social circle or society at large.

 

well holidays have just started here, and i wasn't at school thursday or friday... so that's pretty much five straight days that i've been drinking. i think i'm developing a problem as i normally drink in the morning. try having a hangover at 2pm. i'm sure you will get over it as will I(hopefully). when you start drinking instead of going to school you should be worried about yourself.

 

how does that otter chick know everything about me?!?!?! hahahahaha its kinda creepy/true/cool all at once lol

 

ok, lil miss sistha. get on line and find these three books: By Gary Goldshneider
The Secret Language Of Birthdays
The Secret Language of Relationships
The Secret Language Of Destiny

Do ebay, or alibris.com or barnes and noble, just get them.

Your mind has now been opened to Exciting as Fuck possibilities. need i say more?

 

this also applies to everybody, and nirvana, if you ask me, i will give you your info too, cause "you" are *freaky* too, ( so no worries, ok???)

 

crazy. i spent my whole summer drunk and high nearly everyday, but i dont drink to the point im passing out and throwing up hardcore.

 

gee thanks. don't i feel loved. what can you tell about me from my birthday?

 

nirvana, ok, basically,
i am happy to oblige bro, but i can only write the first 2 paragraphs now cause i have to draw out a new canvas.....so PONDER this and consider how this info can help you start to see things didferently about the self-imposed pressure you are putting on yourself. i will write more soon.
~~~that otter chick
ps yes, you are loved!!!

December Seventh: The Day Of Idiosyncrasy

( I am Not making this up!)

Those born on December 7 are one of a kind. During most of their lives they find it difficult to fit in with those around them, wheter at school, at work or at home.Those born on this day often grow up thinking of themselves as abnormal, peculiar

 

...or just plain weird. Whether they really are or not, they believe they are, and often live up to their own expectations. December 7 people are usually drawn to those who are also a tad bit peculiar.In any case, they have respect for people who have the courage to go their own way, no matter what it is they do. Secretly of course, many born on this day would like to be accepted on conventional terms, and enjoy just blending into the crowd from time to time. They may succeed in forcing themselves to fit in, but the struggle usually takes its toll on their nervous system.

 

that'll be $150,OOO please. (stay at betty ford and 3 years re-hab therapy)

 

seriously, just save yourself all that turmoil of re-habs and AA meetings for alcoholism 5- 10 years from now, and get on your spiritual path.

 

that goes for all you kids who are hitting the booze. otter knows about alcohol addiction big time from a boyfriend who became a *falling-down-drink-till-you-pass-out-start- drinking-again-till-the-cops-come-in-jail- crazy-drucken-behaviour-rocker-crazytrain-ozzy vanhalen-hardcore-drinkin* boyfriend. i know WTF i am talking about when it comes to goin' to AA meetings (with him) and being with hundreds of souls fighting this MONSTER off for dear life. It's like, i am trying to hold back fromm going nuts here, cause i want to SAVE you young kids from this hardship!!!!! I admit, i was TOTALLY NAIVE ABOUT ALCOHOLISM when i became involved with his charismatic and larger than life leo musician.... with all his wonderful redeeming qualities. it was the classic case of thinking he was "going to stop drinking soon"...that did in fact lead to 3 seperate rehab situations. He finally made it to sobriety but it was an ordeal from hell. All this from just partying hard, being a Typical american partying teenager, by 28 his life was alsmost completely destroyed by fucking alcohol. I am sorry, but i really hate what that stuff does to people and that is why i advocate herbal medicine. but that is another story.

 

*a bit calmer now*... for any of us who have ever loved an alcoholic, ...just thinking about the reasons why people drink to oblivion and self destruction can make us go a little nuts with worry and anxiety, with all the drama and pain.... the entire syndrome of that kind of chaos and dysfunction eventually just takes over a persons entire life.
that is why i emphasize learning about oneself, using the tools of astrology to get insight on ones spiritual tendencies and life path issues, before lives are *destroyed*. (Whoops! Game Over, and i didn't learn my life lesson, have to go back and try agian)
also, there have been some excellent responses to this thread...( soaring eagle, you are right on. )
i hope people will keep posting and talking about this. It affects most of us at some point in our lives. So, thanks lil miss for starting this thread....

 

wow. that is freakishly true. thanks for that. i might have to look idiosyncrasy up but other than that i can see how it all relates too me. it's a little scary.

 

hellopeople your so right,
she does use it to forget, blank out memories although she wont admit it cause shes almost completely wiped those memories out..but i remember the last time those memories surfaced (althhough she dosnt)
i agree she does need to try to get help, buut she usualy will say shes beyond help, or theres noone alive who has ever had her problem, or nothing will ever help
i think she had been in therapy a couple times, but never stuck withit past 1 or 2 sessions, & everyone knows 1 or 2 sessions woudnt do a da,m thing
when she decides to heal, she needs to commit herself to healling
as it is, she cant even imagine getting through a single weeekend without drinking