Hah! Says an 18 year old. Go have a daughter and find out she is having sex 13+ whether she thinks she is mature enough for it. Basically, keep your lackluster opinions to yourself until you have the experience.
15 year olds can get in a lot of trouble thinking with their small heads. BP, if you think you are ready for sex, go find a prostitute who can show you the ropes, but be sure to wear a Jimmy hat.
I was 18 and in my opinion I rushed even that. You should never do it just to do it. Do it with some one that will matter. love&peace ryv
10?!?!?! that's a little bit insane... were you even on your period then? geez. i guess people these days wanna start super early.. it's really not necessary to have sex that early. just wait until YOU feel ready AND the person you are with is ready. don't force it upon anyone though.
i was twelve. that's weird though, ten? my little sister, aria, is nine. aria will be ten on new years eve. i couldn't see her having sex at ten?! i wasn't interested in sex at ten... i don't think i was anyways. i know i was at eleven, but waited one more year no, you're right: it's not necessary to have sex that young, i agree. i wish i was 16, 17 or even now: 18.
yeah i personally can't even imagine being ready at 12.. or even 14 for that matter. i was waaaay too immature for that. i still played with barbies when i was 12!!! hahaha. i have sisters ages 10, 11, 12, and 13 and i can't imagine ANY of them having sex! crazy stuff.
i quit playing with barbies when i was 13. haha, i quite old, yet i was having sex too. yeah, i was ready, so i can see what loveminx is saying... but ten: THAT'S FUCKIN' CRAZY, yo.
I lost it quite early. about 14, coming up 15. Don't really mind though, it meant I got all the fear and unknown out of the way by the time I was in a loving relationship.
yeah fountain of nay, that is true. i hated that feeling of unknown... it's still the unknown with me. and i still experience that from time to time. i wonder why, though? ;(
i lost it at 16 to a guy i had been with for 5 months. naturally, opportunities had arisen before that to turn over the ol vcard, but i wanted to wait till i was with someone i loved and trusted. i definitely don't regret it; even though i'm with another guy now, i'm still really close to my first, and so is my current boyfriend. the guy i'm with now says his first time was random, awkward, and he was just "out to get poon"... so definitely take a look at your motives. you may regret it later, especially when you have to admit to your future wife how much of a pig you used to be!! just remember, it's free LOVE, not free lust.
It's all very individual, i would say. Some are ready at 15, some aren't till the day they marry. But noone is at fucking 12! That being said, Chronic's got a point. A very nice way of putting it, is that if ye can't picture the one ye're about to fornicate with as the father\mother of yer child, you really shouldn't do it. But hell, what do i know. I've been around the block, so I shouldn't really be preaching.
i don't think i can say anything that hasn't already been said, but maybe i can add a bit... be careful. i had a friend in a similar situation a couple of years ago. he was 15 and had sex with someone who was nearly 14. she got caught on the matter and decided to lie and say she was raped; the courts, of course, believed her. it may not be on a permanent record for him, but be careful who you shag, because every action has a reaction.. and some, like my friend's, aren't one's you'd hope for ;] best wishes for you, darling
i just can't see anyone under the age of 12, or even at the age of 12 for that matter, KNOWING they are ready for sex.. i call bullshit. seriously.
hey, i'll turn my cards over. and why would i lie about it? big whoop, no more virginity? where's the incentive to lie? the truth is the truth...
i don't think you have a reason to lie, hippy i am. i just don't see someone THAT young being REALLY ready. so perhaps you should rethink that... 10?!? come on. how the hell could you REALLY be ready for sex at ten?
