Age Differences.

I like.. Discipline. I couldn't take anybody younger very seriously. >.>

 

5 years apart ok. But more uke:

 

I'm...uh..16, so thats where the critism comes from... his parents don't like me. Hes telling them today though...

 

You are... uh... 16... and you've been going with this guy for three years... which means you started when you were 13, and he was 18... I would guess that a lot of the criticism is deserved...

 

It's a complicated situation.

 

please do explain because that is a huge age difference when your that young

as you get older

25 and 30

or 40 and 45 not so much

 

So when you were 13 you were dating an 18 year old?

 

Ahh, beat me to it.

 

from someone with experience in that area, PLEASE do not keep dating this guy. He is an perv, no one over 18 should be dating an underage person. It is not smart, and is certainly taking advantage of someone. I am sorry but at age 13, an 18 year old should not have been dating you. I dated an 26 year old, when i was 12, and I regret it, that man took advantage of me, in more ways than one. I then dated an 40 year old man at age 16 , 17. trust me, Not a good idea. I have serious trauma issues, not to mention I ended up dating abusive guys even my age, just bc of those experiences. I did not get over it for along time, and it fucked up my love life and sex life, even now, bc I still have nightmares, and flashbacks. and not to mention I got so used to dating pervs and assholes, that I stayed in an marriage for 2 1/2 years wtih an man that beat me. It only took a bunch of therapy and meds, and stuff to actually be with an man my age, and now married happily. Please get away from this man, he may tell you he loves you but what he is doing to you, is very very wrong. and could lead to way more wrong things.

 

Psych, it's your wedding night, or the night after...If you're on HF, you do have issues...

 

wow, I clearly should not have not diclosed this information. ...Its my life, if its a mistake I'll know that in time. Right now, we are happy, there has been no problems. He loves me, I love him. It is only because as a society we are contdition to think this is wrong. We werent serious until a year ago.

 

I'm comfortable with 15 years older to maybe 3 years younger if the guy is very mature. I suspect I'll marry someone a decade or more older because of my field. The men tend to be older, and I've always been happier with older guys.

 

as long as you are happy thats all that matters but just be carefull he can be charged for statutory rape if for some reason you are having sex and you parents feel the need to ever press charges.... Just something to keep in the back of your young mind.... Im not saying i know everything but i sure as hell know a lot more now then when i was 16

 

:] I am learning, he is also learning. Were a good partnership. Weve grown very much in the period of time that we have known eachother. My mom knows,she understands. Its alllll bueno, my friends. No danger here. We are just contriversial, I guess.

 

My boyfriend is 13 years older than I am and my girlfriend is 10 years younger which also makes a 23 year age difference for them. No problems here!

Oh, and my grandparents were 27 years apart and were married for 55 years.

 

Age is 100% irrelevant, as long as all are adults, here that means 18 and above.

Adults with children, is not 'controversial' it is illegal.

 

I'd even go as far as to say age is only irrelevant if you're 20 and older. An 18 year old High School senior could be dating a 40 year old man. Look at Anna Nicole Smith. Granted, that was more of an extreme, but I think you get the point.

A 13 year old shouldn't be dating anyone more than 2 years apart from them at the max in my opinion. Even that could be considered a little big of an age difference. You need to have experience with LIFE first.

 

So what if an 18 year old dated a 40 year old man?

As ADULTS, they have that right... If an 18 year old wants to date someone who is 106 years old, that is only the business of the two of them.

 

the night after I believe. and we didnt have sex. so yeah i was on hf. LOL
and I have really bad insomnia. hehe

 

I was just trying to make sure you are careful. there are too many people out there willing to take advantage of young girls like you!

and You think he loves you, but what kind of man, would not take law into account, and care about you well enough to wait till you are of age, to actually date someone older by that far. Jmo, but after all the damage done to me. I would not want to see the same for you.