Like many men (and women), I like to watch porn when I masturbate. I stumbled upon the JOI genere a few years ago (look it up if you don't know what I'm talking about). I found them all to be focused on humiliation. The cam girls would always call the viewer a "loser" or "f@g" or any other number of insults. This really didn't turn me on. THEN, I stumbled across a profile where the cam girl actually encouraged the viewer to masturbate. She finishes by providing a number of positive affirmations (she calls it "Aftercare"). Now THAT turned me on. I found a few other videos that were similar. One was a cam girl providing a GFE (Girlfriend experience) and another was a Dominatrix that indicated that it was OK to be turned on by men. These all were a big turn on for me. Why isn't there more content with a positive message? We all masturbate, right? Why do pornstars treat you the same way that teenaged bullies did in school. Why the shame?
A couple that I have found on PH are: - Teeny Ginger (JOI with Aftercare) - Alexa Crush (Positive Affirmations JOI) - Petra Hunter (Girlfriend encourages you to suck cock). DM me if you find others.
