Affair with a married man

I met a married man who happened to be in the next town, we chatted and talked for a few days before meeting up for dinner. Afterwards we sat in his car and made out, he just blew my mind away. But, now I am so scared to meet up again because I knew we will both get carried away.

Since we are living really close, I am afraid to take it further...Need advise

 

How about getting all your friends to chat to him and seeing how many of them get invited out for dinner.

 

Safe Sex = the explosive euphoric engagement. - but that'll be all it be.
I would have thought trusting someone who is attached, and allowed themselves the luxury of cheating on their partner would be somewhat suspect for longevity, - so the consideration would be how do you feel about those scenario - IMO

 

Be safe

 

If you're simply wanting to enjoy his presence again, why not? If you're thinking you'd like a permanent thing, just remember the old saying, "if they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you".

 

That's not your guy.. your hurting someone, and your cheating.. back off!

 

If you do decide to see him again and think that it will go further-then keep that shit hush-hush. I totally agree with what other members have posted before me. But at the same time, I’m not here to judge. People have needs- bottom line. But remember, if you get caught, there’s consequences.

 

I'm not sure why "we are living really close" is an issue.

Is it because that makes it easy to turn this into a regular thing?
Or is is because that makes it easier to for the information to get to the wife?

In terms of information, the "information distance" is not related to physical distance.

 

I agree with Morrow . Except that "someone" could end up being you .

 

A word of advice.
If they cheat with you, they will cheat on you!!!!

 

Absolutely the truth.

 

Have his baby

 

You don’t want to know his bad side. Nothing like you have seen and have his bastard child like VG said

 

UPDATE: The only contact is via email and I am not going to go any further....Thanks everyone!

 

Honestly I think you have done the right thing .Its a pity that you didn't know his OH and then I would shop him as well before he hurts someone, as he has made his intention clear to cheat.

 

Why would you tell her? What has she done wrong?
So you would destroy a marriage for him being a cheat? Break her heart... nah, just dont mess with other peoples man.. let's face it, why would you want a cheat and liar in your life? Get shut, stay shut.. but stay away..

 

Good job! It is best to head them off at the pass

 

his ohio?

 

I see where you are coming from and I don't disagree , however he will get found out eventually sooner or later as he is likely to cheat again if left unchecked . By shopping him now it would be caught in the bud and perhaps with the help of a counsellor , something could be salvaged. That was the rationale I was looking at as there is often a reason behind someone cheating . Once that reason is known or surfaced then it gives a counsellor something to work on . In my experience its sometimes down to a lack of communication .