Last year we joined a swingers site. Although we never met up with anyone we did chat a couple of times. I really enjoyed the likes our pictures got which helped me perform better. We left the site after a couple of weeks as we decided that swinging wasnt really for us. I miss the likes and idea of others looking and enjoying my wifes pictures. What should i do?
Grow The Fuck Up.........Then Devote Your Time And Love To Your Wife.......Which Is What You Should Have Done In The First Place..... Cheers Glen.
I hope you realise that you're implying he was being unfaithful and that you're acting like what "should" happen between them is your decision and not theirs. Perhaps "swinging" isn't ideal. This may be because it didn't go further then that. Not close enough per-say. On an emotional level. I find I'm like that and I speak as a poly person. Swinging? Nope. Having someone be there for me that I can do kinky things with? Yep. You'll find your own answers from here.
My wife and I engaged in group sex but only with friends. We are not into sex with people we just met or who we had zero emotional feelings for. With friends it was just fun. I had sex with their wives and they had sex with mine. All in full view of each other and no one looked like they were making love, just having sex. We stopped with the group sex because my wife never orgasmed with the other guys. We did not know then that she is bi and prefers sex with women at the time. She is fine with me but wants no other males. We have not had intercourse for longer than we can remember so that is probably why she is fine with me. She does have very intense multiple orgasms with me but only with me. You can exchange photos online. There are sites just for that. I used to post pictures of my wife and I should have known she was bi because mostly women replied. She is very feminine and yet women always stare at her probably because she is the size of a 12 year old but with fully developed breasts and hips. You can go on some of the video sex sights where you can have sex with others watching or watch them. You can also take turns masturbating with someone on the other end of the video line. All sorts of things you can do if you like to be looked at. Just Google it.
