Hiya, So recently I've been quite confused with my sexuality. Whenever I'm out or at the beach I'll probably check out some girls although I'll sometimes see if a boy is cute or not too. I find boys 'good looking' but I never think to myself that I'd date them. I've known a few girls that I would consider going out with if I had the chance. As I think it over in my head I seem to confuse myself over and over, maybe I'm trying to make excuses for myself to not admit that I'm a lesbian. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Have you ever been with anyone before? If not, then you should probably start dating both boys and girls (not at the same time though ) and then your heart will tell you
Yeh I agree, you will probs know what feels 'right'. I went through the same thing and told myself I wasn't a lesbian but then fell heavily for a women and the rest is history! Good luck
Or it might not be as simple as just being straight or a lesbian. Sexuality is complicated. If you think of it as a line with gay at one end and straight at the other, you could end up anywhere in the middle. Just be open with yourself, don't try to be anything you're not and when something feels right, go for it.
I'm with Evalina. Sexuality is really complicated. Some people just can't label themselves and they shouldn't have to! Just live your life and when you fall in love just embrace it. Don't think too much.
