He sees you as young enough to protect, but not old enough to be involved with. He may be willing to clean up your puke, that doesn't mean that he want to hitch himself to a girlfriend who is always puking. At his age, he has access to women who don't get into situations where they need others to clean up their puke. (metaphoricaly)
I wasn't talking about her age. I was talking about her maturity/stability. A woman who has a habit of needing rescuing can be of any age. A woman who is alert enough to avoid those situations and deal with them when they do occur can be any age. Most 17 year old people are transitioning from the first group to the second. It doesn't make them attractive to members of the opposite sex who have already made the transition. You don't have to wait.
He's also the one that put me in the situation where I puked, and his roommate warned me that I was gonna puke. And that still doesn't explain why one minute he's screwing my brains out and telling people he's into me, the next he's pissed.
if I had a dime for every teenager that fell for me, being that Im 41. I would have 20 dollars in dimes.. Seriously, you should seeks someone in your age group or just few yrs older..
Go talk to kids my age, then say that they'd be better for me. Seriously. Go spend 20 minutes with them and tell me that.
You are in lust with him that is why. You only see him through Rose coloured glasses. I hope ya's are keeping it safe....... or your asswill becoomed trapped with tiny little feet running around.
Why you call them kids?? 17 is an adult in PA. really you can have sex with 72 yrs old's if you want to.. I wouldn't suggest it though. If Im Hanging out with kids your age, if does nothing for my image but makes me look like a pedo whether legal in PA or not, Its just not right.. you must be 21 yrs or older to ride the Orison.. :love: besides you cant do drugs or legally drink alcohol. Anyone giving you drugs and alcohol is just using you, cause you cant buy them yourself.
I call them kids because they act like kids. When they act like adults I'll call them such. Plus, in the state of PA you're a kid until you turn 18, but age of consent is 16. And if he was supplying me alcohol because I can't buy it myself, doesn't that make me the one using him?
Orison said "you can have sex with 72 year olds if you want--but I wouldn't recommend it". Scratcho sez--YOU TAKE THAT BACK!!!!
Just because you are having sex with a 29 year old doesn't mean you are acting like an adult. In fact, it seems kind of strange to open your book on here for people to give advice then not accept any of their insights. Actually seems childish to me. If he was supplying you with alcohol and got laid, who was using who? Beer is plentiful, available at every corner gas station to anyone over the age of 21. 17 year old available vagina is actually quite scarce in my experience (dredging up ancient memories).
He'd have gotten laid without the beer (which, in PA, isn't available at every corner gas station). If the words he said to me the first day we kicked it were "Wanna come have a sexfest with us?" instead of "Wanna come get drunk with us?" I'd have still showed up. I never said having sex with a 29 year old made me an adult. I never claimed to be an adult. I never really claimed the 29 year old was an adult, either. It's just that 17 year old boys seem to have the maturity level of a wild pidgey in Pallet Town.
Ah, but the age scale doesn't go 17-29. There are still plenty of numbers and levels of maturity between them. You're about to turn 18, correct? When I was 18, I found myself hanging out with a 22 year old. The age difference wasn't too huge, but he was miles more mature than any of the guys my age. But I can tell you for sure, as mature as I thought I was then, the first few years there were several times when our age difference was apparent. He'd had 4 more years on me, 4 more years of life, 4 more years of experiences. And it was hard to get through the bickering and misunderstandings that inevitably erupted as a result. But we stuck through it and toughed it out and now I'm 24 and he's 28 and we're still together. There are plenty of mature guys who are older than you, but not so old that you'll be chewing their food for them before you've hit your mid-life crisis. You just don't want to look. And for Pete's sake, if someone who cleaned up vomit = love, then elementary school janitors would have to register as sex offenders.
Ah yes, the difference in maturity and wisdom between a 24 year old and a 17 year old becomes readily apparent :2thumbsup:
Ah yes, the misunderstanding in this thread becomes readily apparent. :frown: :window:You know what you and the window smiley have in common? You're all so excitable that you completely miss the point. I never said that cleaning up my puke equaled love. I never said that we were ever in a relationship. I find Ramona's argument about puke to be specious. What I said was taken out of context and without reference point. If you want to call ME immature then you shouldn't immediately go into attack mode because you don't feel like looking into anything I said.
The puke thing just seems to come up a lot throughout the thread. If you want to sound mature, then stop butting heads with anyone who offers you advice you may not want to hear. That's not attacking, that's constructive criticism, and when you come on a public message board asking for advice, you're going to probably hear shit you don't want to. I'm not attacking you.
