Advice please

Discussion in 'True Love' started by Chrisjms60, Aug 26, 2018.

  1. Chrisjms60

    Chrisjms60 Members

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    Me and my wife are both 30, she is going away on her first girls holiday soon and is obviously very excited about going. All of the other girls she will be with are single. Shes been buying some very revealing thong bikinis to wear when she goes. Shes slim with a great toned body and curvy bum. All I can think about is her cheating on me, this thought is turning me on so much I cant stop thinking about it.

    Is this normal? Advice please? Will she cheat?
     
  2. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    Yes......Most Certainly So....I Suggest You Dust Off The Divorce Papers Before She Returns...... :D



    Cheers Glen.
     
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  3. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    She has already been banged by the travel agent that booked the holiday
     
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  4. ArtyB

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    Wow she must have a big sex drive?
     
  5. I would be worried.
    Who even buys bikinis for a holiday.
    That's not normal.
     
  6. soulcompromise

    soulcompromise Member HipForums Supporter

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    Normal is relative.
    My advice is put an end to it before it gets any worse.
    Yes, she will cheat. And you are going to wonder if she did even if she didn't.

    I think you need to re-evaluate some things.
     
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  7. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    relax dude..ignore the cheap shots above...none of these people who answered can pull off wearing a bikini any more...too old

    it is normal to buy bathing suits before a vacation..it is normal to be very ecited….it is normal that some dude will hit on your ol lady while she is away.....just trust her and show her you trust her or you are gonna fuck this up for her and then you will ever hear the end of it....what ever happens is gonna happen with or without your jealousy...you gotta lose it

    who gives a shit she has some fun on vacation.....absence makes the heart grow fonder...if she cheats eventually the pictures will surface and you can deal with it then

    relax brother...also...dude there will be lots of way hotter girls for those dudes to hit on...she may not even get a second look
     
  8. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    so, where is she going and when will she be there?
     
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  9. WOLF ANGEL

    WOLF ANGEL Senior Member - A Fool on the Hill Lifetime Supporter

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    If a partner wishes to cheat, they will do so - ... Holiday or not!
     
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  10. Bear with me on this... Does it really matter if she cheats?
     
  11. Irminsul

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    Depends on the bear. :p
    I'd be worried about polar bears because they're the best bears. :)
     
  12. pensfan13

    pensfan13 Senior Member

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    No worries till you suddenly get an std neither of you ever had before. Then it's time to Google how o.j. got away with it.
     
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  13. la Principessa

    la Principessa Old School HF Member

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    If it turns you on then why does it matter? Do you have an open relationship?
     
  14. Just for fun

    Just for fun Live your best life

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    This should teach us to be such a good person and partner that the other person would not want to cheat. Then it would be their mistake. If you are worried something is wrong with your relationship. Hire a snoop detective to stay at the same motel and take pictures. It may cost but those pictures work great during your rape in court.
     
  15. Angela36

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    She could be doing that just because she knows it turns you on. So in light of that, don't complain. Just give her another credit card and continue on.
     
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  16. Mike1000

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    Don't sit home- go out and have fun! Whatever that is for you. Don't bother her while she's away and don't accuse her of anything when she gets back. Keep busy. If she don't d anything yet I'll find out soon enough.
     
  17. Just for fun

    Just for fun Live your best life

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    Act very innocent and give plenty of rope, she will get sloppy and mess up. 2 of my wives did and there was no question.
     
  18. scratcho

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    Up your technique--make her new "buddies" into amateurs.
     
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    2 Of Your Wives....????....:astonished:...Just How Many Wives Have You Had...:confused2:..???



    Cheers Glen.
     
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    Just for fun Live your best life

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