Me and my wife are both 30, she is going away on her first girls holiday soon and is obviously very excited about going. All of the other girls she will be with are single. Shes been buying some very revealing thong bikinis to wear when she goes. Shes slim with a great toned body and curvy bum. All I can think about is her cheating on me, this thought is turning me on so much I cant stop thinking about it. Is this normal? Advice please? Will she cheat?
Yes......Most Certainly So....I Suggest You Dust Off The Divorce Papers Before She Returns...... Cheers Glen.
Normal is relative. My advice is put an end to it before it gets any worse. Yes, she will cheat. And you are going to wonder if she did even if she didn't. I think you need to re-evaluate some things.
relax dude..ignore the cheap shots above...none of these people who answered can pull off wearing a bikini any more...too old it is normal to buy bathing suits before a vacation..it is normal to be very ecited….it is normal that some dude will hit on your ol lady while she is away.....just trust her and show her you trust her or you are gonna fuck this up for her and then you will ever hear the end of it....what ever happens is gonna happen with or without your jealousy...you gotta lose it who gives a shit she has some fun on vacation.....absence makes the heart grow fonder...if she cheats eventually the pictures will surface and you can deal with it then relax brother...also...dude there will be lots of way hotter girls for those dudes to hit on...she may not even get a second look
No worries till you suddenly get an std neither of you ever had before. Then it's time to Google how o.j. got away with it.
This should teach us to be such a good person and partner that the other person would not want to cheat. Then it would be their mistake. If you are worried something is wrong with your relationship. Hire a snoop detective to stay at the same motel and take pictures. It may cost but those pictures work great during your rape in court.
She could be doing that just because she knows it turns you on. So in light of that, don't complain. Just give her another credit card and continue on.
Don't sit home- go out and have fun! Whatever that is for you. Don't bother her while she's away and don't accuse her of anything when she gets back. Keep busy. If she don't d anything yet I'll find out soon enough.
Act very innocent and give plenty of rope, she will get sloppy and mess up. 2 of my wives did and there was no question.