Advice for finding a second woman

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by innocentnewbie, Apr 7, 2014.

  1. innocentnewbie

    innocentnewbie Guest

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    My partner and I have a great sex life that we like to keep interesting.
    He loves a nice wet blow job and being rimmed but he's ultimate fantasy is one woman giving a blow job and a second rimming at the same time.
    I'm completely up for this BUT I want the second woman to be a paid professional to avoid any emotional messiness.

    We're thinking of nipping over to Amsterdam as prostitution is legal there but we're unsure where to start, the RDL seems a bit seedy for what we want but would a sex club offer this?

    Any help, hints or tips would be greatly appreciated. :)
     
  2. -CT-

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    Ugh, would you really want someone who could have a number of different diseases for all you know?

    I'd say you shouldn't do it in the first place if you're that concerned about him getting attached to another woman. It shows that you still have some things to work out. Set some solid ground rules before you do anything, and bear in mind that sex and love are completely separate concepts for most men. Especially if it's just some bird who is brought in with the purpose to lick his ass, lol.
     
  3. innocentnewbie

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    To be honest I would imagine a prostitute in a legalised country is probably a lot cleaner than a random we could find on any website :)
    I'm not concerned about him or me getting attached it's more to cover ourselves with the other woman! lol
    So we know that unless we choose otherwise we don't have to see that person again.
    This is just as much for me as him ;-) but as it's a new route for us so wanted to do some research, see if anyone has any advice from personal experience or otherwise.
     
  4. -CT-

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    Eh, I very strongly doubt that to be honest. They still take dozens of dicks on a daily basis, and I'm willing to bet that they have had the condom break more than a few times and/or not always used protection in the first place (especially for oral). I've been to Amsterdam and checked out the night scene, and had no desire whatsoever to stay and do anything.
     
  5. oOMinxyOo

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    I'll be stalking as OH and I in a similar situation.... I am wondering whether swingers might be the way to go.... Also I've just registered on to and adult hook up site which seems promising x
     

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