Activities with Guys

I'm really sorry to hear that, they have some legitimate beefs regarding the way things are being handled but I think it's pretty clear to everyone they're going to be better off because of what happened. What about the Kurds? As one of the most overwhelmingly oppressed people in the world for a large chunk of time I figured their gratitude might never cease.

Mary, Bonkai, and Aris, thanks so much for the ideas, they are pretty much exactly what I was looking for. You guys are the shit.

 

I'm twice your age, so feel free to disregard anything I say, but regarding non-athletic activities, here are some thoughts (these are all things I have done with men in the past year or so):

1. play Scrabble .. shows her how smart you are ..
2. try new things on the BBQ
3. stargaze (he had a big fancy telescope, but a planetarium works too)
4. various museums (you almost can't go wrong with this)
5. meet for lunch or brunch in the most offbeat little restaurant you can find
6. be a bleacher bum at a major league baseball game
7. live theatre or concert, especially in a music genre that's new for her
8. go to the doggie park, if your city has one
9. take her fishing
10. take her to a poetry or book club reading
11. street fair or Renaissance festival
12. picnics are always nice
13. take her skinny dipping late at night
14. take her shopping for lingerie or a swimsuit, and sneak into the changing room with her
15. read erotic fiction (or any kind of fiction) to each other
16. spend an evening looking at photos of your family and childhood
17. take a day trip to another city to see touristy things
18. hot air balloon ride
19. go to a collector's convention (whatever it is ... comic books, rocks, stamps, whatever)
20. meet for a drink or coffee after work
21. assuming you're already close, take her away for a weekend without telling her where you're going
22. and last but not least, find out what she's really interested in and do it with her, even if it's something you don't especially like

 

Take a day trip to a scenic area, if there is one close enough. Go to an edgy theater performance and talk about it over drinks. Go to a professional game in a sport that you don't know much about. Guys love to explain sports. Try an indoor game (like backgammon) that neither one of you knows, and learn it together.

 

Jigsaw puzzles. Battleship. Card games like cribbage (My hub and I used to play this for hours!) Social video games.

But I'm a lazy, stoner nerd chick. These things suit me well.

 

when it someone I truly connect with, I could sit with them for hours and do nothing but listen to music and talk about endless things...bud might be nice

im all about nature though so camping, being outside...

sorry i have a simple mindset right now

 

i married my guy and i love grocery shopping with him. i know that sounds lame but it can be a lot of fun...

 

I like talking with my boyfriend, watching series and movies with him, going out together, smoking a joint together.. all the things I'd do alone or with friends I like doing with him a lot as well.

I also just enjoy being in the same room with him while doing different things. We spend most of the week together and it doesn't seem to matter what we do, if we're in the same room everything is more fun.