About to do something stupid.

I'm a 45 yr old MWM. I often visit a hole in the wall restaurant with shitty food because the waitress is hot and flirts with me.

She is in her early 20s, black, fit but thick. I always go about 10 minutes early so I can openly flirt before my co-workers arrive.

Last week the guy I was meeting had to cancel so I was by myself. I told her this and she said "Finally. Now we can talk. I know why you come here all the time.". I don't remember what I started saying to respond but it was a lie and she cut me off. She said she knew I was into her. Again, I'm a 45 yr old white, nerdy looking guy and she's a 20-22 yr old black baddie.

I didn't say anything, I did this nervous laugh that is really unflattering. She knew. She moved onto my side of the table and acted like she was pointing something out on the menu and put her other hand high on my thigh.

A lot is going through my head. She fucking with me? WTF??

She takes her pinky and run it up and down the front of my pants. I had been thinking about her for so long that just her doing that made me hard. She said "There you are. ". She rubbed up and down it a few times, have it a squeeze then got up and walked away.

She comes back and she just told her boss she has to leave early. She said we can meet up in an hour or so. I order, eat, give her my number, and leave.

She calls me 20 later and asks where I want to meet. We realize we both live about 30 minutes from that area. We decide to meet in a park nearby since it's a Wednesday at 1:30.

There wasn't anybody there but we set on a picnic bench for a few minutes talking before moving to a quieter area of the park.

Things escalated quickly. She jerked me off a bit and was rubbing my cock on her pussy, through her panties. She turned around and was sliding her beautiful, round ass up and down my dick.

It didn't take long for me to finish. I could tell she was uncomfortable doing this outside. We quickly cleaned up and got out of there.

She texted me today saying I need to get my Father's Day gift from her next week with the eggplant emoji.

Not sure what to do here. Should I start this up. I'm married but have a situation to share the sex part would not bother my wife but if I start giving her my time, that would be a big problem. Not sure what to do here.

 

That's easy; tell your wife, then enjoy your new companion's company, without all of the the deviousness, dishonesty, and sneaking around. In my experience, the vast majority of men who say that 'their wives wouldn't mind if they knew' are deluded or disingenuous.
This is where you get to choose who you are; a person of integrity, or a cheat and a liar.

 

This is a good answer and something I needed to hear as well.