A woman's place is in the home...

Well, I'm not a woman like that. If I was with a guy that told me I should stay home to cook and clean as he went to earn money, I'd tell him to fuck off.

 

Frankly I've been a better cook than any broad I've dated too.

 

Ha, great choice of word

 

yah hook me up

 

Sweetheart. I am wealthy. I have a cook and a house cleaner now.
The mom should be home for the children and to manage the house.

Managing the house involves all kinds of decisions but relatively little physical activity.

The woman is totally in charge of the house. So anything she wants done to the house is in her hands. She chooses the furniture and the decorating. I write the check.

If the girl wants to start a business, it is my job as a man to make sure the business has adequate financing and all things necessary to succeed.

I am not opposed to a girl running a business for fun. But her only obligation is to me and the children if we have any.

As long as the house is running well, and my needs are met, she has freedom to do as she wants.

Now why don't you go buy something pretty.

 

Sigh, you're so magnanimous.......

 

When people patronise me, it makes me what to hit them.

 

Hello.

That is so true and cool.

Well not quite what I was talking about. I see your point, though.

Intelligence is important. I do need to have things in common with her.

 

I am an stay at home mom right nwo bc I lost my job . But I would rather work and provide for my kids then this, bc being dependant on someone else, Is not my cup of tea. I am sorry but traditional roles are fine and all, if you dont tell anyone else they have to live like you do. and also, an real man, does chores around the house, and helps you cook, and an real man, can and will raise the kids at home if the woman wants to go to work. Anyone who thinks he isnt an real man bc he does so, is just too self-righteous. and you know actually taking care of the kids is an full time job. So if an man does that he is still working. Unknown american I am glad you are with someone who can live with that. bc I sure as hell couldnt. as soon as I can find childcare I am going back to work.

 

I've gotta be the coolest guy I've ever met, and I still wouldn't want a girl who'd just be satisfied being my second fiddle.

On the other hand, I can understand where you're coming from. My relationships aren't very healthy anyway, so I wouldn't take my advice.

 

I totally fantasize about a stay at home woman. However, as soon as I fantasize about that, I realize how she would be home ALL THE TIME. so nevermind that.

 

Well it was a joke in the spirit of the thread.

I know better than to patronise someone.

I did it once and ended up dodging plates being thrown at me.

 

This thread is really long. That's a good thing. It is an important discussion. However I just got up at my usual crack-of-6pm, and i cannot even read a few without being afflicted with brain lock. However as usual i will type my ass off not knowing but a smidgen of what is in this discussion. Since i am exhausted i hope i don't type to much. since i write and think extemporaneously(real time) w.o. thinking, or knowing when i will stop here goes(nothing). (yeah, don't have to inform me: "its seems its always about you emo". don't worry my "superego" is constantly whipping me, making me feel constant guilt, for any little imperfection about myself. oh, thats a good one for my next thread starter: superegos(think Freud, not conventional sound of the term)again, : superegos: do you kill them or relocate them to the outdoors?)

ok let me try to give my bs about this important topic

a)paid sex

b)finding a "wormhole" back to 1949 or there abouts. think movie "the man in the grey flannel suite, original version, circa mid 20th c.

c)join a non political but traditional church. there, you will probably find the woman who fulfills the traditional role.

d)robot vacume cleaner. i saw them in the stores a couple years ago cheap. now, where did they go?(to the war on terror, war on drugs, etc effort?)

e)microwave dinners only. use paper plates(wax paper is good for somewhat saving sauces from being absorbed by the paper), foam cups, plastic dinner ware. tah dah! no filthy piled high with dishes and roaches kitchen sink. no need for trad woman and no paying a house cleaner what little spare change you have.

d)ahhh... brainlock again...to be continued later...chow(sp?) people-people

 

oh yeah, forgot about the keeping the species going: procreating and raising children. good question, cannot give my two cents worth at this time....

 

I think we're past the point of having to worry about keeping the species going.

 

thats a disturbing vid clip. sadly men physically abusing woman is all too common. and no, you don't have a right to abuse a woman even if she is a ****, stole your money, plays games with your mind, etc, even if she has physically attacked you and stopped. the law is genderless: self defence yes if the bitch keeps stabbing you. but you will be thrown in for mere punch back at the **** who started it.

here's the real solution, fuck women's lib, fuck manliness, fuck society. the solution for relationships treat your main woman/man as you did a girl/boy of the opposite gender when in childhood. or think of your main man/woman as being both friend and lover. walk side by side. take turns serving each other. and treat your lover or spouse as you would a sibling that you get along with. one that you would not dare hit or hurt, and vice versa.

beleive me i may sound pc wimp here but really we should try it. forget about the battle of the sexes. think of each other as friend and lover. or i sometimes think a circle(e.g. a "tribe") of friends and lovers is more practical. i mean sooner or later your main man or woman is going to leave your, for sure due to death. if you become so insular with the two person relationship, you will indeed go into deep, suicidal depression. at least always take time each day away from each other. and i don't mean work time. i mean every day some free time with someone else. and i think that both man and woman in a relationship should have extramarital or extrarelationship(for lack of a better term)sex. that both persons in a close relationship should have paramours, mistressess, etc on the side. in europe, until recently, it kept marriages together. and if you have children, thats the best thing, to have both a male and female nurturers, to have both a mother and father that is there for you, that love you. i think single parent centered nurture and caretaker is fucking up this young society....to be continued

sincerely,

dr. joyce smothers

 

point taken. funny, i forgot i am always worrying about: how is a finite mother earth going to feed all these people on planet earfff? especially when the bio fuel entrepreneurs want to redistribute edible vegetation to your gas tank

 

Ok, let's just carry on with oil then....

 

Some of us bio fuel entrepreneurs are working with the Jatropha curcas plant. It is not edible and is totally renewable.

37% of the seed is biodiesel. You harvest the seeds on the plant and crush them for oil. The plants keep growing and producing more seeds.

But the United States Government is in bed with the corporations on this.

That's okay. I will still make a pack of money with it.

And a woman's place is in the home.

 

A man's place is on the battlefield.............................you pussies.