Ok, pot. You know it you love it. But are you in love with it? Would you go all the way with sweet lady MJ? Or are you just feeling her boobies and suckin' the roach? Now, for clarification. By now, your about ready to discount me as a pervert. Don't do it! I do have a point and a valid point or two. What I'm getting at here, is the use of Marijuana as an afrodisiac. I know it works, but how well? Because, you see, I'm faced with a problem. You see, my ex-gf (before she broke up with me) made me promise to not do pot anymore. When she broke up with me, it just felt wrong to go back to it. She said she broke up with me because she thought I'd just go back to it. If I go back to it, she'll be right, or is it just me hoping she be admired by my will? Anyway, I haven't gone back to it. But I've been thinking about it's uses in the bedroom. It could be a way far out experiance. But, I want to know if it's worth it? Is it really a bond-streangthening experiance, or does it leave you burnt out? Get back to me with anything you want to say or add.
Generally speaking ( i have had it go either way ) I think sesx is better sober. If you broke up with your ex, then just dont talk to her and then she wont care if you smoke or not becfause you are broken up. BUT if you are still talking and might get back together, then I'd say just be who you are. if you want to then you want to, if you don't then you don't. but if you avoid it because of her, just to please her, then you won't be you. and when you get back together, eventually you'll want to be you, and the issue will arise again, and then you'll break up again. and you don't want to go in that vicious cycle do you? This is just my opinion. Take it for what you will.
I just read your post, and this is what I think: It's a great thing. It relaxes you. A lot of people have a problem with relaxing when it comes to sex. If you tense up your muscles, and stuff, things will hurt (i'm speaking about girls)... This isn't exactly a great thing, because it definitely hurts afterwards. I've noticed in my relationship, pot brings a lot of closeness, and passion. I'm not saying I lack this sober. But, It heightens the whole sex session tremendously. It heightens it to another dimension, it seems. (Okay, that might be an exaggeration, but you get the point).... My sex-life sober is just as great, but pot brings that "extra" something. Sex on Shrooms....well that's another story.
I think sex while high is pretty great. Of course, sex not high is pretty great too! I'd actually say that the bowl after sex is better than the bowl before though. It's a totally different sensation, and I think it's pleasurable to go from all charged up during sex to extremely mellow afterwards. Makes me that much more mellow, I guess. However, I'd actually like to comment on another aspect. This is obviously just my opinion, but I think it is ridiculous for a person to quit smoking FOR someone else. In the long run it can't help things, especially if you really enjoyed smoking. A bit of resentment may develop, especially if you guys go to concerts and hang around people smoking (cause you might get offered at a concert...how hard would that be to turn down?). But ultimately, I guess it's up to you. If this girl is just so incredible that you feel it's worth it, don't smoke and try to get her back. She could be testing you, but IMHO, that's a bullshit move anyway. That's my opinion, but I've been called a pothead before....and you know how BAD we are!!! humandraydel
You know what? I think I'm ready to finaly let go and start smoking again. She was right, I just went back, but that only proves that she knew me, and it's not a bad thing. W/e, boys will be boys right?
sex is best when you're high... it seems like my senses are heightened and i am more focused on pleasuring my lover. and the buzzed up orgasm blows my mind
this is just coming from a pothead chick that really enjoys sex... sex is excellent when you're stoned. I'm definitely not saying it isn't excellent while sober, i'm just saying it is equally excellent while stoned, sometimes better. It's just that whole happy-go-lucky relaxed as hell and horny too thing, ya know? And when people talk about how drunks are so horny....well, so are potheads. And when you're stoned, you're not sloppy like you are when you're drunk. It's better, trust me. hummm.... I'm stoned right now, and my man will be home from work in about 5 minutes too...maybe i read this post for a reason? hehehe :X
hey, i totally agree with wallflower, kinda funny how im sitting here in the same position as she is, stoned, with the same opinion and waiting for my baby to walk in the door... whoa man.... yeah, being a stoner chick, i love pot, i love sex... and when combined, im pretty damn happy. spread the love
this is the deal. women love to have sex when they are stoned, where as myself and most men i know dont. a man has to eh, perform. pot makes me both antisocial(and lovemaking is very social) and can have mild anxiety consequences for me, and anxiety dosent make for the best erection. i usually stop thinking about sex only when im stoned, cus then i am content. woman are content too when stoned, but always more content with a cock in em.
