A straight male w a lot of really good looking female friends

If a straight male has a lot of really good looking female friends, does that mean he is good looking? Or is it hard to say?

I have no money, so women aren't attracted to me for that, but I am smart, funny and outgoing.

Basically, I am 25/m/usa and I don't know if I'm good looking or not. On one hand, I don't get approached or flirted with by women out and about, and I know I'd fail on * (a hookup site). On the other hand, I do okay on *another hookup site. The thing that confuses me is that the women I have gone out with/been intimate have ranged from average to amateur models. And my female friends are all very good looking (7 or 8/10). Granted, I've been friendzoned by all of them, but that was due to my own incompetence.

 

Maybe they just find you to be not threating. Kind of like many women hang out with gay guys, because they don't find them threating either.

 

I call bullshit on 25. Not only did you a/s/l us, but you also rated your friends on a scale of 10.


That's high school shit.

 

How would one be non threatening?

 

Personality sometimes is more important than looks & not what sexual tendencies they have.

 

Dating sights: My sis passes on group shots(she isn't there to date your friends), baby/child shots(she does not want to hook up with your kid), money pics (if all you have is cash, you fail), car/truck shots(she will not be dating your ride) and drug/alcohol shots(if you can't party on the DL you are more trouble then you are worth). Then she rates your looks and profile details. Did your pic fail for one of these reasons?

And if you are smart, funny, and out going but surrounded by hot chicks, your friends may give the impression that a girl just can't compete. Sure, she may also be smoking hot, but girls are conditioned early in life to be judgmental of other girls and to know ALL their own faults, so being hot does not automatically bring self confidence.

And finally, if you are pretty, are you actually good in bed, or relying on looks alone to get you through the deed? If you can't make her happy in bed but are good company, you may be just a friend. Ask your ex gfs how you rate there, not us.

 

I couldn't agree with your post more; this definitely happens!

 

I rate women on a 1-10 scale too. lots of man do.

based on your pictures in the body shot thread.... you are a 7. ( very good score If you ask me. fuckable starts at 6 in my book, tho I do have low standards)

 

After careful consideration I find this to be a dumb ass thread...