Buddy, when you really get to know me, you'll learn how very little of what I say makes even a little sense.
The only reality that exists is physical reality. If it can be prooven by the senses that it physically exists or existed, then that is reality. If you smell, feel, taste, hear, and/or see it, it's real. Distorted realities (dreams, hallucinations, etc.) are also real, for they can be prooven via CAT scans and the liking, but the results are simply reactions from the brain. With acid, for example, the brain bleeds and the result of that reaction is hallucinations.
your reality is that which you perceive if you cannot perceive something, it may not exist in your reality, but that does not mean it does not exist within and absolute reality
one creates there own reality,, be it to another human being real or fantasy,, reality is in the minds eye,, its what you perceive it to be.. One can be walking thru a mall thinking hes on a slave ship,, but in his minds eye its reality.. reality is,, an does exsist in your own minds eye.. your reality doesnt nor should it,, exsist in the minds of others... unless yer michael then ya have dozens of folks revolving around what they perceive to be your reality.. whatta joke...