A question for married bisexual men

And whoever said that had no fucking idea what they were talking about - and they had no fucking idea what "being married" to two women was like and, really, three since my girlfriend on the side wanted in on this aspect of the relationship and became "wife #3." It still had zero impact on my bisexuality and all three women knew that I was and that I was a cocksucker - but this "marriage" wasn't as much about me as it was the women that I loved dearly and even when they'd drive me insane by just being women - and women who, I would learn, were oddly similar but different.

This made being married to one woman look stupidly easy by comparison - and anyone who is or has been married knows that it's not even easy. I was now living something that a lot of men dream, fantasize, and masturbate to and, really, all because my wife liked pussy, too, and, whew, the night she went down on wife #2 had me holding my breath and I wasn't sure my heart was beating, and I had expected the shit to hit the fan and... it didn't. When wife #3 came so we could, um, consummate our expanded union, she devasted my wife and left the poor woman speaking in tongues band in about three minutes before turning her attention to me and wife #2 and, yeah, even when you think you know someone, you still find out that you really don't. So, bisexuality was still very much alive and well in this very expanded relationship.

 

Seems like you MORE than had "all bases covered", for certain!

I would think it safe to say that there is almost nothing that you haven't done, with either a woman or another male........

 

KD23:

At the risk of repeating myself, WHAT a book you could write, on your lifetime of virtually any all types of sexual experiences.......man, the lines awaiting you at the book signing(!!)

 

No, there isn't much that I haven't done - and if I haven't done it, I probably know about it... and maybe, just maybe, I might write that book.

 

Man, once word got out that you were penning your highly diverse (and unorthodox!) sexual memoirs, detailing your endless experiences and escapades since your earliest days.......man, they won't be able to keep those books in stock!

Forget "Ripley's Believe It Or Not"!!!!

 

Given how explicit much of it would have to be, they'd want to severely edit it in some way that would take away from the story of my life, as it were.

Unorthodox? I wouldn't say that but I'll say that perhaps things really do happen the way they do and for a reason... even if the reason isn't all that apparent or obvious.

What I knew - and what I'd said to my wife and wife #2 after we made love/fucked was, "You know, I'm the luckiest guy in the world because there are a ton of men who would kill to be where I am right now..."

 

KD23:

Maybe you could have the book published by a company dealing only in erotica............

 

Perhaps...

 

Your highly-erotic, testesterone-charged "memoirs", I am sure, would make "The Joy Of Sex" look like a book of Mother Goose rhymes, by comparison!!!!

 

I don't know about that but I do know that to write such a book and in the way it has to be written, well, 'raunchy' wouldn't begin to cover it.

 

From what you have recounted here (and in many other discussions) I indeed would MORE than agree with you on this!!!!!!!!!

 

On the whole, I'd have to guess that my life has been rated XX...

 

KD23:

Better make that XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX!!!!

 

Nah, just two Xs...

 

I fear, my friend, you are FAR too modest, especially given your many years of unbridled, virtually non-stop, "no holes barred" sexual exploits...............

 

The younger days were a whirlwind of having sex and with anyone who wanted to have sex with me; I was different from a lot of guys because I sucked dick, ate pussy, and didn't mind being screwed all that much - until I did mind but that's a whole different situation that I won't get into at this time. The years between 9 and 16 taught me that the rules we have about sex are... bullshit and rather prudish and I got to understand why this was and why it contradicted how good sex could be with anyone, male or female. Bringing this understanding with me into adulthood was a whole different perspective and, yeah, marrying the girl I met (and got pregnant) when I was 15 - and I knew she was hiding her bisexuality but couldn't prove it - wound up changing the rest of what I knew about sex and sexuality and in ways that, again, a lot of guys could only dream about and jerk off to - or were deathly afraid of.

I don't have any kinks or fetishes and the "kinky sex" a lot of guys here fantasize is sex that I've had and more than once or twice. Threesomes with either men, women, or both? Did a lot of that before I was an adult, which made getting into them easier being an adult. Spit-roasted by two guys? Yup. Had a train run on me by nine of my friends and then sucking those same nine guys off? Yep, and it was fun despite a couple of moments that I wish hadn't happened but, yeah, shit always happens when you don't expect it to. Sleep with people older than myself? Sure, why not? With someone's wife or their husband... or both of them? Yeah... hell yeah. Being with a bunch of guys and an "orgy" breaks out? Yes... and ain't it funny how that can happen? Yeah, it sure is and especially when there are guys involved who said they would never do some shit like that.

Get my butt reamed out by my wife or another woman with a vibrator? Yep and, my goodness - wasn't that an interesting set of feelings or what? Eat another man's cum out of my wife's pussy? Sure... because I really loved eating her to begin with. Learned something about myself watching her getting nailed by another guy and when she was giving him a blowjob that she didn't think I had noticed. I'd be rated XX because of the sex I've had and the things I have learned along the way and the biggest thing is that everyone can be fair game... if they want to be. They are fair game until proven otherwise. Everyone. The rules we have in place don't mean a hell of a whole lot when someone wants to have sex and they're not going to be all that particular about who they have it with.

I had to teach myself how to say no during the pre-adult days; otherwise, if you wanted to do it, let's go do it because sex is so darned amazing but, yeah, there are some people you should never have sex with because they really mean to harm you, and that harm is their idea of "good fun." If someone wanted to add more Xs to the two I've given myself, it's probably because I have zero qualms about having sex and, again, chances are that we're not going to do anything that I haven't done many times before. I don't have any preferences other than I prefer to have sex. Period.

Compared to other folks I've known, I'm pretty tame in comparison so, yeah, only two Xs. Bisexuality taught me a lot about having sex and the people you can have sex with... if they don't mind a whole lot. It has never been men or women - it has always been men and women and both at the same time... just works.

 

EXCELLENT "commentary"........indeed, you trruly have covered virtually ALL bases during your VERY active lifetime!

Keep on keepin' on!

 

I'm doing my best...

 

.........indeed the UNDERSTATEMENT of the century!!!!!