a question for chicks

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by UnspokenThings, Aug 31, 2005.

  1. UnspokenThings

    UnspokenThings Member

    Messages:
    653
    Likes Received:
    0
    ive been told lots of times that im a very intense person. a girl i know a couple of days ago said by the way i talk and look and the way im so direct etc and just how i am, makes me very intense. she said that girls will either find that very sexy or very creepy depending on their personalities.

    i wanted to know what the mojority of people thought...

    maybe its too difficult to ask this question coz maybe you dont know what im talking about.

    oh well.

    what ever...
     
  2. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

    Messages:
    9,183
    Likes Received:
    27
    I agree with the person who said that to you...

    Personally, it depends on the level of intensity we are talking...I'd have to get to know ya better...LOL
     
  3. ImmortalDissident

    ImmortalDissident Senior Member

    Messages:
    1,114
    Likes Received:
    0
    I find intensity intriguing, personally. I mean, you've got to be thinking about a lot of things, or heavy topics to be intense, right? If that is the kind of intensity you are talking about. Intense anger... not so good.


    And intensity (as some call it) in the way of Michael, if you know him from around here, HORRIBLE turn off.
     
  4. Wonder Girl

    Wonder Girl rhapsody in pink

    Messages:
    2,313
    Likes Received:
    0
    I agree...I usually feel that intense people are more passionate. They seem to be inspired by something. I love that...I love when people are passionate about their ideas or beliefs or even something like music or art. As long as they're not rude or mean as part of their intensity,then it's a good thing.
     
  5. stoney69

    stoney69 Member

    Messages:
    747
    Likes Received:
    0
    does that not tell you enough ?
     
  6. ZePpeLinA

    ZePpeLinA Jump around!

    Messages:
    2,955
    Likes Received:
    7
    are we talking intense as in "passionate" or intense as in "clingy"?

    You mentioned the word "intense" and i instantly thought of an ex friend of mine who was rather intense...but in a clingy way....way too much for any chick i think.
     
  7. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

    Messages:
    3,486
    Likes Received:
    20
    I would say you seem on edge a lot, even though your not, it seems that way
     
  8. Weeble

    Weeble Member

    Messages:
    946
    Likes Received:
    15
    I'm pretty sure I know how you feel. I'm actually a very intense person. I've gotten to lighten up a little bit over the years because it just clashes with so many people I know. I'm serious when it comes to things I'm passionate about and I'm very passionate about just about everything. A lot of people don't understand it, especially guys, so I often get dumped because I'm way to "intense" and serious too soon into a relationship. It just seems to come naturally to me.
     
  9. Silver Salamander

    Silver Salamander Member

    Messages:
    216
    Likes Received:
    1
    I think that, perhaps, you're a little bit vulnerable at the moment. At times like this, we sometimes listen too much to an off the cuff remark and take it to heart. When we are feeling great, little barbed comments like that bounce off harmlessly.

    So, someone thought you were too intense? SOmeone else will think you are just fine. Ultimately, we have to be ourselves, and none of us are perfect, so just use your best points to the utmost. I get the impressions you are a sensitive dude, and probably talented, too, so bollocks to the rest of them!
     
  10. Aerosolhalos

    Aerosolhalos Member

    Messages:
    408
    Likes Received:
    0
    I've been told I'm pretty intense. I've also never had sex before. That should tell you everything you need to know.
     
  11. toolmaggot

    toolmaggot Nuts Go Here.

    Messages:
    4,343
    Likes Received:
    57
    Passion is good. Definitely very good.

    Intense is usually a huge turn on.. Then again, I don't know you.
     
  12. Laura-the-flowergirl

    Laura-the-flowergirl Long haired child

    Messages:
    1,398
    Likes Received:
    1
    Intensity is something I truly appreciate. Being passionated is always something good, it's a wonderful emotion. But there are limits of course. Extremity is dangerous. But intensity doens't have to be extreme at all, mostly it's just very honest and pure. I love it, it's very sexy ;)
     
  13. Another_Angel

    Another_Angel Member

    Messages:
    36
    Likes Received:
    0
    ive been told lots of times that im a very intense person. a girl i know a couple of days ago said by the way i talk and look and the way im so direct etc and just how i am, makes me very intense. she said that girls will either find that very sexy or very creepy depending on their personalities.


    Hi there,

    I've been told that I'm pretty direct too. I try to be, and it can sometimes be seen by some people as threatening, even though you don't mean to be. By the way you look and talk makes you intense?

    I remember meeting a guy once who was in the Army, and he freaked me out because he took everything so seriously. He couldn't take a joke or relax and have fun. But then I met another guy in the army the same night and he was the complete opposite. He was cheerful and happy, and didn't take himself too seriously.

    I don;t know about other people, but I like people who have a sense of humour, but are also capable of having a serious discussion without trying to dominate or intimidate. In the end I think I'm attracted to people's fun side that laughs and makes jokes. But then... I did fall for a guy who looked pretty intense when I met him... isn't that a joke? He also has a wonderfully fun side too, and I think I love that side more.
     
  14. Keramptha

    Keramptha Senior Member

    Messages:
    1,075
    Likes Received:
    0
    well id say... keep at it.. whe your intense youre like an arrow... headed not nessercailry anyWHERE...but still pointing.. and directed...as in getting closer to the roots of your being... so when your feeling like an arrow...keep going.. and dont think a thing about anyones else comments....remeemebr that epople dont think.. they just regurrgatte things theyve heard.. so keep being an aroow id say.. and cut through the crap...
     

Share This Page

  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice