A Question for Bisexuals

Sexually, I'm equally turned on by both women and men that I find attractive. I definitely find a higher percentage of women attractive than men, however. I also have never had any desire to have a serious relationship with another man. For me, a hot guy is great to look at and have sex with, but when it comes to a relationship, I'm only interested in women. Sexual attraction isn't the biggest thing for me when it comes to relationships, though, so I don't think this is unusual. Just because I am sexually attracted to someone doesn't mean that I would want to have a relationship with them.

 

A sexy person is a sexy person ... so its both all the time for me

 

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I'm generally more often attracted to girls, but if a guy is hot enough then he could probably make my knees shaky.

if i had to choose in a given situation between and incredibly sexy girl (perfect body, ass, boobs face etc) and an incredibly sexy guy (great body, hung, tall, handsome face) i would probably have to flip a coin.

 

I'm attracted to both sexes at the same time.

 

I just like everyone. I always tend to be with guys more though...girls I'm a bit more sexually attracted to.

 

i am attracted to both. it is not in phases. i like who i like.

 

Although i have a boyfriend I find i am more attracted to girls at the moment

 

I'm really inconsistent, haha. I find that if I'm with a girl, I look at girls more, if I'm with a guy, I look at guys more, etc...

Or if I'm not in a relationship, I think I'm more likely to look at girls. I think. Or maybe I just go through phases, I never really pay attention I guess. Haha.

 

i've never gone through phases. im attracted more to girls, but i feel more comfortable around guys, so it's kind of a balance i guess.

 

consistent, equally.

 

I can relate to that. I'd consider my personality somewhat androgynous in nature (by western societies standards at least). I'm not too keen on the typical girly gossip or drama, nor am I overly emotional. Thus, I tend to get along better with men and find myself becoming attracted to men more often because of this. However, when I do stumble upon a woman who I can relate to and is free thinking and such I find myself just as attracted to her as I would to any one else.

At the same time, for some reason my standards are much higher for men personality wise than they are for women. I think its that I find myself attracted to intellectual men who can understand and sympathize with the womans struggle- i.e. is a feminist, whether they are aware of it or not. Women of course, understand it.

Physically, I'm much more attracted to women. Personality, I just like people who are intellectual, down to earth, drama-free, free thinkers. I think another reason might be because its not easy as a woman to approach another woman with the fear that they wouldn't swing my way. My location also probably has a lot to do with it (I live in Orange County and am dying to get out).

But yeah, I hear you, mama.

 

I myself go through phases. There are some times when I'll be exclusively turned on by women, and only very rarely by men; and there are other times when it's the opposite.

 

The question is so fucking worthless because sexuality is way more complicated than the contextual situation that the question attempts to understand. You just can't ever tell exactly, so whats the point, might as well just forget the question and enjoy it as it is, every savory moment.

PS. "fucking" was meant in a very passive aggressive sense. I am just frustrated with having to live in this society sexually, it fucking nargles me and twists me.
Still this is who I am at the moment so i wont take it back. Moving along now.

 

while i'm attracted to both, i would not be interested in having a relationship with another girl.

 

I like guys more than girls, but where i live there are no gay/bi guys so i have to date girls

 

i'm sure there are, you just don't know it or they haven't come out yet.

 

I'm with you Biguy71...

I also have an attraction to men (as a guy) but women are so much nicer to cuddle and fondle, and let's face it: their bodies are so much more appealing! But yeah still need a guy every now and then...

 

I'm always turned on by both, but I go back and forth in other ways--sometimes I'll be craving a relationship with a guy, sometimes I'll want to be with a girl. Dating a guy is a lot different than dating a girl, and it's those differences that I go back and forth on.
Also, I tend to find more guys attractive than girls, which I attribute to the fact that they're the opposite gender and I am biologically compelled to reproduce with them.

 

I HAVE TOTALLY DONE THIS. :rofl: However... it totally creeped me out that I had the same taste in women as my bf at the time... And also it made me wonder why he was with me, and checking out women who were the polar opposite of me. Then he dumped me... and got with one of the types of girls we checked out together lol... so I guess that explains it!