A Question for Bisexuals

I think that my sexual interest in members of both sexes is pretty equal.. however, i do find that i like to be in a relationship more with a man than a woman just cause girls are a lot more drama to deal with, especially if you're in a real relationship with one and they're overtly jealous..

 

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attracted to both =)

 

In my opinion men are much hotter than women, I fantasise about men in personal time, and If I was in a major lust fest, would prefer to have sex with men. But I think a relationship with a woman would make more sense for me, and regardless of body organs, the personality is what clings me to a person

 

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I've noticed lately that I'm a lot more into getting with a guy, mainly because it still hasn't happened after I've been trying forever. but I never turn down a female. I guess I'd call it about 50/50 but really right now just taking what I can get.
And typically I seem to be more turned on by men when I'm extremely horny then after I nut the attraction goes away temporarily, where as with women I can get horny in an instant and again and again if need be.

 

I go in phases myself. Right now, like vim, I'm in "guy" mode. I soooooo want a boyfriend right now I can't see straight. But then again, I guess I couldn't see straight to begin with.

 

I'm bi-natured but not really bisexual....I mean I do check girls out sometimes but I lost my virginity to a boy and I've never had sex with a girl. I want to soon, though. I think almost all people are beutiful...not quite sure If I'm bi yet.

 

Right now i've been really interested in being with guys, tho its only been in the last month or so that i've seen a decline in my urge for women... i say it used to be about a 50/50 guy to girl ratio, but now its more of 75/25.

 

yeah im in guy mode too i just really want a nice long clean cock to love

 

well, for me, i'm more towards guys than girls. that's in terms of kind of surface lefevl attraction. so i meet more guys i am attracted to than women i am attracted to. but if i do meet a woman i'm attracted to, the attraction i feel is much deeper and stronger than any i feel to a guy.

so i've had more casual encounters with guys but some of my most meaningful and fulfilling relationships have been with other women, even though ive been with far fewer women than men.

 

i am really confused. i think that, if i wasn't beaten over the head with the "god hates you if you're gay" stick growing up, i'd be waaaaay more into women. How it is now is that, i'm more attracted to women, and would rather be in a relationship with one, and just be good friends with guys. But because of that accursed stick there's always this other voice saying "NO NO NO you have to date a GUY!!! or else your grandmother will hate you and you'll ruin your mother's life even more!"
yea, it's pretty heavy, i know. i am attracted to guys too, but only the effeminate ones.

 

oh and a male's anatomy REALLY weirds me out...no offense guys. my ex bf told me i had "the sex drive of a manila envelope".

 

I wouldn't say that I go through "phases" of gay/straight, but I am fairly selective with which girls I am attracted to... there haven't been as many girls I like as there have been guys, but the ones I like I like longer and I think on a deeper level then many of those guys.

 

Both. always always always.

 

im definitely consistently attracted to both.
although i usually tend to be in more relationships with guys, i would much rather hook up with a girl.

 

i'm not a person who goes into phases either. i find both beautiful always. however personality wise in relationships i tend to do better with men. but i do believe in falling in love with the person and not with the gender.

 

I've had more relationships with the opposite sex but I'm more attracted to the same sex (women). But I tend to meet more men because I fear getting rejected by women cause most women I meet are straight. But overall, I am 50/50 but I'm currently in a serious relationship with a man and plan on being with him. We are both bi and both 50/50.

 

i'm usually constant.

 

Philosophy major here, with near identical sexual experiences. However, I have found that it is useless and unhelpful to the ends of having a good sexual experience, to ask the question: Am I gay straight or bi? The reason is that it simply is impractical and after 6 years of exchanging thought with the question, I have stopped for one very practical reason: Identity and thoughts about identity are guidance tools and naturally claiming to be either of these identities does little to help my sexual experience. Mostly I put my focus into thoughts that apply a better feeling my relationships. Special relationships with meaning and heart that I would potentially experience an expression of sexuality to its most satisfying essence.

Simple and satisfying, leaves you with more energy to actually bring beauty and the mysterious passions of friendship and sex into my life.