A Question for Bisexuals

Discussion in 'Bi Sex Discussions' started by Bocks, Dec 1, 2005.

  1. franzde

    franzde Member

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    I personally find that my sexuality frequently varies. sometimes i can find myself longing for intimacy with another guy and then the next day feel that this previously strong urge has dissipated and been replaced by a strong urge for intimacy with a girl. I also feel as though it depends on typically male and female characteristics and what sort of company you feel you are lacking at the time.
     
  2. sublime94

    sublime94 Banned

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    Its flip-flop. Some times I doubt im bi, but other times, I realize that I actually am.
     
  3. JaminBen

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    I can walk down the street and say to my friends 'He's hot, shes hot, shes hot, he's hot' etc. I find both genders just as attractive in their own ways
     
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  4. peaceloveandshrooms

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    I'm bi but I am generally more attracted to women. I do kind of have phases though. For the past few months I have only been attracted to women and actually started to question whether or not I am truly bi. I currently have a boyfriend though, so I've been reminded of how much I like boys too.
     
  5. lostdazedintime

    lostdazedintime Fucked in the head

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    it varies in level of preferance, but i really prefer guys.
     
  6. Jungle

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    I go through phases mostly, but if I'm looking for a guy but see a hot girl I'd still be more than happy to go for it.
     
  7. lovelorned

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    As for me, I only like one man, and I doubt I can stop..Other than him, I"m stright female all the time..the only reason I used to go through those phases you're talking about is becauseI grew up in a family that didn't accept gays or bisexuals, so I tried to stop, but I couldn't so, since I couldn't stop I just don't try anymore..the thoughts are still there..
     
  8. ardus

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    Like many I am attracted to both men and women quite often, but the last couple of years most of my attention has been going to men. Who knows, maybe this will stick or maybe I'll swing back, but either way I am having fun.
     
  9. Geneity

    Geneity self-proclaimed advocate

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    I put it into a ratio of 60/40 guys/girls. Though it does swing around a bit.
     
  10. Rave0

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    Ah well personally I'm wishy washy. depends my mood, I find men and women both attractive at the same time but like..its takes more for guys to turn me on.
     
  11. Goth Scream

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    Right now i'm in love with a girl, i'm atracted to her both mentaly and physicaly, but i have one-night stands with guys so with them, right now it's just for physical pleasure, and that happens only because the girl i previously wrote about convinces me to accept guys hitting on me. It's weird.. The idea is that i love my girlfriend and she loves me :) So right now i'm more atracted to women..
     
  12. Adrenaline

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    I sometimes go through phases like that, but most of the time I like both genders equally.
     
  13. Narcolepsy

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    I used to think I was more sexually attracted to girls, but lately I've just been into the cock. If I were to put it into percentages, I'd say I'm 60% straight (men) and 40% gay (women). It fluctuates. When I was single, I thought I was much closer to 50/50 or maybe even more attracted to women. Now that I'm in a relationship with a man, I definitely feel more attracted to men.
     
  14. Psychadelik

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    I'm more attracted to girls than guys...I find myself looking and thinking about girls more than guys. However, I do have my occasional guy crush and will check a couple out. In the long run, I'd rather be with a girl than a guy. :)
     
  15. nakedtreehugger

    nakedtreehugger craaaaaazy

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    consistently i'm attracted to girls. until a year ago, that was all i was into. then i met a guy that i surprisingly fell in love with. he's so far the only guy i've ever really been attracted to, but i'm open to the idea that it may happen again.

    but through the whole experience of being "straight" for a while, i've realized that i fucking LOVE being in a relationship with a guy, because we get along better. it's awesome to be in a relationship with someone who you can just hang out with and be real. i have a hard time doing that with girls generally.

    BUT, the original question... i'm consistently attracted to women. but sometimes when i'm fantasizing doing my masturbation thing, the thought of cock really sends me over the edge. so maybe i'm just confused, or in transition! lol!!!
     
  16. Jackbone

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    I am mostly attracted to ladies, but some guys just make my head spin....
     
  17. moongazer

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    i'm always going to find women more attractive than guys. i'm NEVER straight! lol.
    there are times when i just solely go for women, though. just the thought of men creeps me out>.<
    it depends on the day, really.
     
  18. dymatize

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    When it comes to a woman - i LOVE 'em and can't get enough...from head to toe (my wifes got such pretty feet) but i'd say i'm pretty unusual coz when it comes to a guy i'm only orally and manually bi - don't find men a turn on - just cocks !!
     
  19. gratefulxdeadx88

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    I would actually have to say that I am more physically attracted to guys, but a realationship with a woman is much different. My ex-girlfriend and I were together for about 1 year and 4 months and the attraction was very diffrent than that of an old boyfriend.
     
  20. lily120

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    I think I go through phases lol.
    I was in a room with really attractive people and I could pick three to fuck, I'd probably pick two girls and one guy.
    Maybe because I'm not into my boyfriend, i dunno lol
     

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