its funny, I never even thought about men until I said "goodbye" to Christianity (just after the Christians voted George W. back into the white house). Now I don't have all those rules. Its all new though, and I've still never been with a dude. I'd say I'm still 90% hetero, but definatly "open".
*nods too* he agrees! okay that was just an excuse to post a pic brian wilson... but hey it is good smile, oh yes.
I do kind of go thru phases where I lean more towards straight, and then I lean more towards lesbian.
What I've noticed is that it might have to do with my menstrual cycles. When I'm super fertile I am attracted more to men, and when I'm not, I am to women. I think.
I read this last night & had to stop to think about it. For me the attraction(s) come along as they do & I just haven't stopped to keep track. As I think back on my life though I would have to say that there have been some cycles to it but I can't say how much of that is due to jumping in full force once I figured out I was bi then getting scared straight by AIDS. I still was attracted to guys in my second time in the closet & every so often would just have to go out & have an encounter. Now that I'm back out though I have had atttractions to either gender within minutes of each other or simultaneously like when I met a couple that both made me hot. OK so how's that for waffeling. Honestly, any more in the past 4 years I have to say both.
I suppose that goes with the theory of inate desire to procreate. I have often wondered if that is in there for us bis. As I was trying to figure myself out (not that I really have yet) I remembered something that the high school biology teacher said about all beings have this. Where it lead my addled brain at the time is that I like women to satisfy that urge as well as & guys for male bonding as well as sex. That was something like 20 years ago now & I had abandoned it thinking it was just another of my crazy ideas but you have brought it up for me again. HMMMM.
I am equally interested in guys and girls...sexually,i might see myself being with a guy,but other than that..i would be with a girl too
There have been two couples that I've just gone dizzy over lately. I want them... unfortunately I'm sure they're like... 13 years older than me, if not 30 for one of the couples. One couple has kids. Huh.. attraction can be rough...