first of all I wanna know whether you think it's better to be friends with someone you like for a while before starting a relationship or if it feels right, start going out with them as soon as you meet. I've just met this v. nice boy on saturday night at this party and we talked all night, we had lots of fun. we didnt kiss, cos i didnt want to spoil it. (past experiences)...anyways he got my number and said he'd call me. It seems i gave him my number wrong (booze hehe) but he managed to get it through people and he called me. we arranged to meet last night for coffee and as i had to go early we walked to the bus stop and we kissed. it was nice. i like him, but i dont wanna rush into anything. i just want to be friends, not get too heavy. I fancy him but i dont want to call it a "relationship". I told him I'm afraid of relationships cos of past stuff and he's got a similar outlook on this. we have that in common. i told him i'm honest with my feelings cos i dont like people to lie to me. we are going out again on saturday, he invited me to this rave. it'll be fun but as i said, i dont want things to get "serious" right away! just enjoy each other's company without having to go too deep yet. anyways, what do you think?