Oh was feeling just like you few years ago, and changeing the way of thinking and even living is not that hard, you just need to whiden your horisontes, and beleve me, you can find great people anywhere.
ok don't change it, but while you're in Estonia (and it seems to me that you'll be there for at least couple more years) try to meet new people, go to new places, and have a more positive aditude about life.
Married to a US citizen for 2 years? Nope they changed that to 12 years! Why? Cause people did what you want to do. Iv been to Estonia, a qruise, it is a sh*t hole and I would kill myself f I lived there, the downtown Talinn looked like a medieval town, old buildings, no scyscrapers et c. But why do you want to live in America? Dreaming of living in Manhattan? You need to be a milionaire, most Americans have it tuff. No free health care, so youre fucked if something happens. And you need to be 21 to go out and have a drink! Most Americans live in little towns called "small town", and they live much like you do in Estonia. If you dream of living great try Japan, they are always years ahead, they have the highest standard of living, live the longest. And they are high tech, they use their cell phones when purchasing, cards are like the stone age for them. Another good one is the netherlands, you can smoke maruijana legaly.
Thats the conservative right, they hate foreigners. They are many but Americans missunderstands it. They have many signs saying "no foreigners", thats not cause they are racist, they would like youre money but they hate to communicate when they dont speak english. Ps, the best if not only way to get into America is illegaly.
Estonia is a pretty cool country, really pretty at least... and a high standard of living too. ...and they did not change 2 to 12, no matter what you might have heard.
Estonia does not have a high standard of living, Talinn is the capital and major city, they are always good. You can go to China. This is the city of shanghai, cool? Most people in that country makes under 1 dollar, they cant even give their people clean water! Just cause you admire the pitoresk charmign Talinn, I agree Estonia is a great place to visit. But I dont think you can live there. Talinn is not the little village they visit on the weekation, its their major city! And no scyscrapers does not mean anything unless if its in the biggest city, then you must have at least one, if you dont its strange in a bad way. I was wrong, It must have been something they want to. Not yet do Iv looked it up. I know how you feel, I escaped a small town to, It was 600.000 people, but its still small, I like citys where you cant see the entire downtown "center" even if you try, cause it will keep expanding :drool:
I wanted to add.... So you are married for 3 years, then you have a CHANSE to apply for a citizenship wich will most likley be turned down. My Estonian friend, life is short, where do you want to live? Talinn A real city These Americans dont understand your frustration, your desire to see the pictures youve seen. I do, And trust me it is an option you can take. Dont go to America, its not a good place as you might belive.
Is that a wrong thing? I prefer a medieval looking town above a scyscraperfilled city anyday! That's one of the few cool things, yes. You have even less space then in Estonia. I don't know if that's a problem for Mr. Mojo Rising though. Could you maybe explain why the U.S. is so high on your priority list and not a country like Canada for example?
I dont know why you would possibly want to move to the US. I want to LEAVE the US. IT IS highly over-rated and have you read about our economy?