A no strings fling for the wife, for old times sake

What would your wife say if you told her that she could have a no strings fling, or hall pass, for old times sake.
Would you want to know the details? Would she tell you?

 

A few years into the marriage, my wife complained for a week or two that I was the only man with whom she has had sex, and she was facing a lifetime of sex with only one man. After listening to this complaint for a few days, I said if it is bothering her that much she should go out and have sex with someone else. She blew-up at me, "How can you suggest that I should have sex with another man?" I believe that I am her first and only.

Would I want to know the details: yes I would and no she would not provide them without a lot of prodding. I know she had some make-out sessions before we met, but she never mentions them.

 

My wife and I have given each other a hall pass. We trust each. We have not fully acted on it, but I think we will soon. We have also agreed to debrief each other after it happens. We would rather do some same room play with others.

 

I gave my wife the no strings flings with unlimited flings in our 30's. There were a few rules: no friends, condoms, and she had to tell me about them. She had a few and all went well, then she decided to stop. The offer still stands, but she doesn't want to do it anymore.

 

My wife was dating an older guy (she was 29 and he was about 62 or so) when we met and she continued for quite a while after we were going together. He was a disabled Vietnam vet and she mostly just cuddled with him and cleaned his house though I know they were somewhat sexual with each other. A couple years after we married I let her spend the night with him one more time after he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer.

 

I view this as a very kind gesture. I see nothing wrong with it. Consenting adults and all agree. This is something we are presently doing for an old friend.

 

I got a similar response from my wife that Guildford got from his. She was shocked and upset that I'd even suggest such a thing. Of course, it was immediately turned around on me, and I was confronted about wanting to sleep with another woman.

And, even if she did accept the offer, she would not be very forthcoming with details.

 

Lol, yes it's a hard subject to first bring up. But well worth the rewards.

 

My wife and I have given each other a hall pass.

I'll comment on only a couple of sentences from above
"...Would I want to know the details: yes I would and no she would not provide them without a lot of prodding. I know she had some make-out sessions before we met, but she never mentions them...."

"...My wife and I have given each other a hall pass...."

Several years ago I wanted to explore this idea, and struck up a conversation in a store with a nice middle-age healthy-looking guy about my age. We got along well on lots of topics and I invited him over to our house to continue. He was from out of town and appreciated the gesture. Introduced him to my wife and we all sat and talked awhile. He had to leave for a business meeting and as I walked him to his car, I asked him if he could pretend to have had experience in giving massages, with the idea that next visit I'd bring it up to her of him doing it for her. He was intrigued with the idea (she was a nice-looking lady) and said he'd be back in a week anyway.

Long story short, He was convincing and I said to her to try it. First session was just simple blouse-off-in-shorts back and leg stuff. Next week he moved the shorts down and hands closer up the legs. She'd been ok with it and friendly with him. Third visit was in the evening, glasses of wine and they sat on the couch while I said I had to go out to the store for a while. Left the door cracked and watched what might develop. Yep, kissy-kissy, tongue-sucking, rubbing, making-out stuff. Then her lying down and him taking all her clothes off. Then her on her back and him sucking her nipples (her favorite) and her stroking his back. But, unfortunately, when he touched her pussy, she panicked and called it off. Later she said she didn't know I wanted it to go on, and would have but was afraid of 'getting caught'. Rats.

Moral to the story: Communication is primary in such things as these.

 

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Sure I'd give her the pass . Would she take me up on it....not sure anymore .
Would I want to hear the details....Hell yes !
Would she tell me....if that was the deal she would and I'd love it !