a few good books on love and community building

Chech out author and psychologist Scott M. Peck's book catalogue. The most popular one and a good introduction to his style would be the Road Less Traveled. However the one that goes into some great detail about community building is called The Different Drum: Community Making and Peace.

Read up, I really like his perspective, you may too. Oh yeah BTW he is not a particularly secular guy, but still very openminded.

Love, light and life...peace