A Female Encounter With A Bi Sexual Couple

Ladies, if you were bi curious & were to have an encounter with a bi sexual couple (female / male), who would you want to undress you - her or him or both ?
Would you want to experience being blind folded by one of them & not knowing who's undressing you ?
What would turn you on more - being seduced by both of them at the same time or one at a time ?

 

I'm used to guys seducing me, so I would be more aroused by her seducing me. Most of the women around here are sexually reserved or at least seem to be, so it would be refreshing.

I would also want her to undress me and me to undress her. I have been in threesomes with women before but I undressed myself. I hadn't thought about it.

 

Maybe it's just my being bigender/partially trans/pansexual/asexual-whatever, isn't sex sex? In the 60s, folks just piled up and did it in all directions until everyone fell asleep where they were. Maybe it's just me, but aren't all these gender labels arbitrary..what about intersex and trans people-hard to decide what gender some people are, after all, and does it matter? In the dark, it wouldn't matter. But it's just me, since most people (at least in the USA) seem gender specific in their orientation. MUCH less so here in Thailand. When a cute couple walks past me, I check them both out (the girl more than the guy unless he's femininely beautiful-very common here) and they often both check ME out..raised eyebrows and all.

I don't seek out partners as I can take sex or leave it (asexual: my genders seem to cancel each other out) but sometimes I feel horny, so get myself off. I usually fantasized being in a mixed-gender orgy, but lately I start out imagining myself as female getting fucked by males, then switch to imagining I'm a male fucking the female I just was (to make it work, I have to imagine the female handcuffed + ball-gagged, or my male side is afraid of her defending herself)... VERY quick and explosive response. Too quick.

 

I'm a bit confused: I'm not sure when you mean sex as in male/female and when you mean gender as in masculine/feminine. Do you think both are arbitrary social constructs?

 

It's not really that simple. It depends on what someone means by male/female-and that presumes there are only two genders, as in the "conventional gender binary." But someone's "gender identity" could be different from his/her birth gender.

Naming someone's sexual orientation can be tricky-it is what gender (s) attract people, but the orientation label depends on that person's current bio gender label. What about a trans person who was born male but now is female in body, but attracted to females? Is she a lesbian or a male-liking-girls hetero?

Bio gender forms in the first trimester of pregnancy. Then a hormone wash sends gender hormones over the brain in the second trimester, forming it either male or female or a mix, or genders identities can form in different places in the brain-depending on hormone/drug/stress influences on the mother. MRIs can see the difference in sizes and shapes of the brain lobes of males, females, gays, and so on, according to hormone influences.
Or a baby could have DNA anomalies..XXY, etc.

One of my friends is a bio male with a female mind (trans) who is attracted 40% to males and 60% to females.

Bigender, trans, gender fluid, or androgynes can often tell the difference as they shift between their gender modes, although fully trans people usually identify with only one of the conventional genders, and many androgynes feel like a mix of traits, with no gender shifts. Others are pangender, or metrogender, or claim some other label to describe their gender identities.

As a gender fluid, pangender/asexual I can feel the shift and see the world through the filter of whatever gender is in the forefront. But because I'm pan/asexual a person's gender doesn't affect my orientation.

As a bio female, my attraction to females makes my orientation "lesbian" in some definitions, but I am attracted to my ex husband, a male, so I'm "hetero" also, or bisexual, except that I am only sexually attracted to my ex. I am attracted to everyone, but my gender brain mapping cancels each other out so my attraction quickly stifles out, and I am asexual.

 

Sorry, I were meaning if the couple were a male & a female.