A Different Point of View on 'Anal'!

A lot of threads in here about anal are the same old stuff... 'how can I relax during anal', 'my first anal', 'what lube...', blah blah blaa.... I've faced a bit of a dilemma about this for while now, but have only really put my finger on it the last few years.

Obviously, lots of guys out there are trying to get their girl-friends to do anal sex, and they think that girls who give up the butt are better girl-friends. I don't know if that's what they really think though?... it's not something that I talk about with my guy friends. And of course many women will give up the butt, thinking that it will make the guy want to stay with them. So men's attitude towards girls is all very well, but what do you do when you meet someone you view as an equal, someone you have respect for..... 'respect for', well, because you know they wouldn't be willing to be fucked in the ass like an animal for instance! Kind of ironic, isn't it?! I know a few of you mightn't like that I just said that, but what can I say, that's how I view it! Although anal is an act I like doing, I guess I just associate it with porn, bimbos, and prositutes. But it's not because of porn that I think it's degrading, don't get me wrong, if it wasn't for porn, I'd think anal sex was even more bizarre

With regard to the part of most men that longs for a soul mate(whether it be a big part, or a small); surely we want more than a fuck buddy that we can have only a reasonable amount respect for?! And something I've often noticed is that whenever the so called 'playas' actually do marry, they often do so to a woman(although attractive) with a shameful sexual history! Interesting giving that they've been the very ones who've gone around making fools of others for so long!

There are some classy girls out there that take the point of view of not having sex until they're in a relationship, and I think it's interesting that this sort of a girl that will always be off limits to players(in spite of how many girls they bed). I'm not quite sure how common this type of girl is? Perhaps in many ways 'players' are their own worst enemies, as they are destined to end up with a loose woman!

And I guess it's not too hard get to fuck girls up the ass hard with all this 'fifty shades' of grey stuff. Fifty shades of grey may as well be thought of a ploy written by men to trick women to succumb to under-going degrading sexual acts. Women read it and get curious, and want to try these new acts... but what they don't seem to realise is that the only ones who are benefiting from it are the kind of men who watch porn.

However, there may be women out there who fit into a different category: namely, women who only decided to have anal sex because of the fact they've been in a committed long term relationship, and may claim that anal sex brings them closer by surrendering to each other or something like that. I simply don't know what to say to those! It still is what it is to me... just fucking.

When I debated about this before, people said, 'oh well you've never even had anal sex'! Well now I have and nothing has changed about my opinion of it. It's ironic to think that women are meant to be the ones who are mysterious, but yet they're the ones who sometimes get bummed! I'm not a woman, but I guess if I was I'd remember that no matter how close you may be to someone, it's best to act on the assumption that you're not going to be with them forever, and one day you may have to walk down the street and say 'hi', knowing that that person saw your soul! So I guess I'd keep my ass-hole off limits and put my pride first.

Well I guess this has always been my opinion about it. I can only hope I meet a woman who's good looking, good personality, not promiscuous and smart enough to realize I'm a catch. Thanks for reading, and I hope you understand why I feel this way and why I feel that the points I make aren't addressed in general.

 

Wow couldn't disagree with everything you said more, but to each their own! This post is right up there with your only hot women clean their asses well one.

 

Wow. There are so many things wrong with this post. You think a woman would think you are a catch? You seem to be a misogynist. Good luck with that.

 

I never "surrendered" ANYTHING!

I gave it because i wanted to because it was MINE to GIVE!

I like anal sex because it bloody well feels great! No other significant reason. End of Lesson!!!

 

Thank you people. I'm like what the fuck??

 

The concept may shock you, but some women have sex because they actually enjoy it. And that may include anal sex.

But you're entitled to your opinion.

While reading your post, I've remembered reading the post of a supposedly female member of the forum who was also very judgmental of people who enjoy anal. You two would make a great pair.

 

Nice, because of opinions you want to pair people up? Quite the judgmental statement if I ever saw one, kettle calling the pot black here. Show your true colors here, it might match your angry red colored dress if in fact You are female. Or you wear one anyway, hee hee.
K, that was fun.

 

Well obviously I wouldn't tell a date all this, but yes I appear to be quite a catch. Looks can be deceiving! It's just that I have the ability to think.... most don't.

If you fuck a girl in the ass, you own her soul; period. And in case you didn't realise, misogynists often thrive when it comes to pussy.

Anyways, a hippies forum isn't indicative of the general opinion out there!

 

You people aren't even willing to try to make sense with me.. that's so childish. Continuing on with your nasty one liners, unable to back them up.

I know you know what I mean with this thread

 

So does that mean you're on my side?

 

:2thumbsup:

Strong women make me wet ahhhh

 

Yes okay, they may enjoy it, but there's a price to pay. They're the one are being objectified.

You know what I mean.... for God's sake, they're being FUCKED up the ass!!

 

It may have been your decision to give up the BUTT, butt you sacrificed something for it. And for yes, for some it's a bigger sacrifice than for others, but it's still a sacrifice.... think about it.

End of lesson! No charge necessary

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L83Hh45aSDI

 

You're sounding like a dude that got fucked in the ass at summer camp or something and feels like it stole his soul. I was going to ask you a serious question but I already know that answer so I won't bother.

 

Or it could be he doesn't have a desire to put his dick there or make a woman take it where he doesn't care to give it or think she really wants it.
Some guys aren't into beating women either and that's cool, some just like the V.

 

The question was obviously, 'Did I get fucked in the ass at summer camp' and the answer is 'No, I did not get fucked in the ass at summer camp'. Now go away

 

No, as stated in the original (long)post, I DO like anal sex

 

Well, that's how you sound with this nonsense..... to probably most of the people reading this thread. And you don't get to tell me to go away. I think I'll stick around. It's like if someone said "OMG!!!! You've let someone lick your vagina? Where your future children will come out? I like doing it but you're an irredeemable whore if you let me do that to you!!" Sounds stupid, right? Sure it does. And your point sounds just as dumb and it's better if you understand that now rather than before you make an ass out of yourself trying to make that point to an intelligent, confident woman.

And...no...that wasn't the question.

 

I didnt think thats how he sounded....i thought he sounded like he spent some time behind bars.

 

So basically because you personally associate anal with hookers whores and porn, that reflects actual reality? See a shrink dude.