A bit of help would be VERY apreaciated

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by Battousai969, May 25, 2007.

  1. Battousai969

    Battousai969 Member

    Alright, I have been dating this amazing girl for the past six months. Our relationship is amazing we are very close and open with eachother. The only problem is I can't seem to bring her to orgasm, the only way she can have an orgasm is using her bath tub facet. I have tried oral, I have tried my fingers, I have tried both of those at the same time. She has been close during intercorse but still hasn't reached the peak. I am not the longest lasting guy, yes I will admit that, so I try to make up for that by oral and fingers but that doesn't seem to do it. Is there any thing I can do?
     
  2. AncientHippie

    AncientHippie Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

    More foreplay. Don't let her have it till she's climbing the walls and screaming for it.
     
  3. Musikero

    Musikero Supporters HipForums Supporter

    So use her bathtub faucet. Sit her in the tub, touch and kiss her all over and turn on the faucet. Or you can have sex in the tub, then after you cum position her under the faucet and turn it on while licking her nipples and stuff.
     
  4. Cutted

    Cutted Cutted

    Only 25-30% of women can have orgasms through intercourse alone and another 25% can get one with manual stimulation during intercourse. 25% can only get it via manual stimulation, and the rest seldom or never get one.

    PM me for G spot orgasm training.

    ---the G spot master
     
  5. Mr. Berguh

    Mr. Berguh Member

    All of those techniques could work, the problem is that every girl is different. Unless I got it on with ur girl :), I wouldn't be able to give u advice that's 100% sure to work.

    The key to make a girl have an orgasm is simple: Keep trying.
    No matter what kind of girl she is, there is gotta be something she rly likes and rly turns her on. Try talking 2 her about her fantasies and what she likes, try different techniques of foreplay, different sex positions, get toys, porn, a new lab dog (yes some girls r into animals lol) etc, etc. Orgasms can be hard to achieve, but never impossible.
    Also, remember that u have 2 pay attention rly good. There might be something that she likes but she's not telling you. U can see it by her body language or lil hints that she gives u. Usually if ur getting close to making a girl come, she won't stop to tell u "Am about to have an orgasm, keep doing what u're doing". You have to notice that yourself.

    Remember you are on a mission so Good Luck! ;)
     
  6. Munkadu

    Munkadu Member

    I had the same problem for years until .. lo-and-behold, I discovered the removable shower head. Curious as to why in the HELL I could only get off this way, my amazingly patient partner and I experimented to find the solution. I have since had multiple revelations (and orgasms!). I must be externally stimulated and the only way I can orgasm during sex is when moving my hips back and forth against my guy (I can be on top or on bottom). The friction created from this movement is the only thing that works for me. My partner used the same idea when rubbing or giving oral sex and had screaming success. It's important that you work with your partner to find what works. It absolutely saved my sex life. Hope this helps :)
     
  7. Avocado Noni

    Avocado Noni Member

  8. cmovaries

    cmovaries Member

    I'd say -- romance her. Start with a dimly-lit room, a nice slow massage, then some serious oral. Find that elusive clit and tease it. Lick lightly, then kiss/caress the insides of her legs. Slowly make your way back to her 'button'. She'll be begging for it. Start slowly and softly, then flick your tongue back and forth quicker, and quicker with a little more pressure, and within minutes she'll be writhing.
    Works for me anyways
    :D
    Good luck!
     
  9. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

    it soudns to me like shes trained her body to cum from one and only one kind of way. has she thought about trying other methods of masturbation or laying off the faucet method for a while?
     
  10. Crunkville TX

    Crunkville TX Member

    yea every girl is diff so just try some new things that she finds hott
     

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