A birthday spanking..and paddling

I noticed that the OP is now a "deleted member". Formerly ncbumpkin. I hate to see her go.

 

I agree she was a good friend and I enjoyed interacting with her . She may come back like I have..

 

You're bad

 

My lady friend has hinted around for a few years about instituting birthday spankings each year. She has a few hairbrushes and an antique strap that she inherited. It seems that her mother was a strict disciplinarian of my lady friend's father. She mentioned that I would be spanked, not her. I'm trying to decide whether to take up skydiving, take the spanking(s), or refuse.

 

I was trained to perform oral well with the back of the hairbrush if I didn't perform well. My poor ass suffered many times until I learned. I had a much older girlfriend who did not hesitate to give direction. she enforced it with a strict application of the hairbrush or worse.

 

Back to the original question about birthday spankings -- I'm hesitant to receive a birthday spanking not because of the sting -- but that I might learn to like it too much. If it was an occasional surprise birthday spanking, I would try it. Once. Perhaps more.

 

I grew up with them and they never really stopped. It’s a fun tradition.

 

It is always exciting to give a romantic partner her birthday spanking, but also its a very fun 'ice-breaker' way to approach the spanking topic with a woman one is friends with and might flirt with but would most likely not have as a romantic partner (perhaps she's married, or a work colleague or just a long time friend, or there's too much of an age gap). I was in a relationship with a woman years ago who was a couple years older than me. I spanked her many times on her bare bottom for 'funishment' spankings... in fact I was the first man to spank her. After we broke up and I moved, we kind of stayed long distance friends, but a good 2-3 years went by before I was in her town and saw her again. She had since gotten engaged (but it was a multi-year engagegemt with no set date) and was still living by herself. We decided to get together for dinner just for old times sake, although she said 'but no funny business'. She was in her early 40's and looked fantastic. We went out for a fun dinner and later that night were back in her living room sitting on the sofa just chilling and chatting. It had been her birthday a few weeks earlier and I brought up that I missed her birthday and ventured to say that at the very least I owe her a birthday spanking (!!) To my surprise (and delight!), she kind of coyly said "a birthday spanking?.... hmmm.. well.... its been a while"... but she didnt say 'no'! A few more coaxing, teasing comments and words of encouragement, and she eventually gave in and playfully and willingly went over my lap. She had changed out of her dress and was wearing some black cozy designer sweat pants, and I gave her the first several mild/medium spanks (20?) over those padded sweats. I could tell and hear that it wasnt giving much of a sting, so venturing out a bit further on the boldness spectrum, I said, "you know I've given you enough spankings - birthday and other - that I know you know it's not a real spanking with it being over your pants... its not your pants that had the birthday" . And with that I slowly reached my index and middle fingers into each side of the waistband of her sweat pants, giving her enough time to say "NO... do not pull my pants down!" and was thrilled not to hear any objections. With a few gentle tugs, I began shimmying her pants down, and was quickly rewarded with the site of the pale white skin of her very lower back... my heartbeat quickened. A few more gentle tugs, and not a word of resistance from her, and her pants were then half way down her ass, resting at the highest point of that lovely curve of her bum. I knew I was home free, and with my heart poudning and feasting on the site of more and more of her delicious ass coming into view, I continued to pull her pants and thong down, until her pants and panties were well down past her lovely cheeks, and her firm white ass was fully bare, staring me in the face (_!_) ... ready to be properly spanked! An absolutley delightful site!!! It was music to my ears when my firm hand came down with much more vigor causing a wonderful cracking SPLATTING spanking sound as my hand seared its way into her unprotected cheek. It to flattend for a split-second, before popping back into position to await the next one, and little pinkish hue began to spread on that milky white bum. Again and again... taking time and enjoying the view as I continued to spanker her, and talk to her... and rest my hand on her cheeks and patting them, before spanking them again and again. I would have given myself less than a 10% chance that I'd have coaxed her over my lap when I first mentioned the birthday spanking.. and even far less of a chance that I'd be spanking her on the bare, but an absolutel THRILL (!). Love giving those much needed, well-deserved birthdays spankings to fun-loving, 'naughty' women.

 

Love it. Love it when someone is watching.