60 plus club

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  1. topper

    topper Member

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    Are you over 60 and as horny as ever, or did you or your S/O loose the desire? What does one with the desires do for satisfaction?
    With the options of Cheating, Bi Fun or really getting into Masturbation and Toys, What's your choice?
     
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  2. olderndirt

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    I'm over 60, and my wife and I still enjoy sex together. When that stops, as it will eventually, I would turn to masturbation. I'm not going to cheat and bi is not appealing at all.
     
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  3. Panama Jack

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    My and I won’t cheat and Bi is not our thing. We have always had toys and masturbate together and apart. However, we both agree that a “healthy” sex life is important to both of us. So we agreed long ago that if one could perform sexually, the other could have a FWB for sex only. Sex is healthy throughout life.
     
  4. jimandjan

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    We are a 60's couple, and yes our sex has slowed down to once or twice a week. I don't last as long, so she might finish off with a toy. Porn doesn't do it for me, so that's out. But we get by. We tried lots of different things, when we were younger. So we have lots of memories.
     
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  5. LowHangers

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    My wife turns 60 this year (I'm 55) and she still loves sex and gets wet as easy as she did in her 20's as she's said. We've been together for 5 years now and she's just as much a sex pot as I am.
     
  6. NorCalMan

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    My wife and I are over 60 and our sex life is not as hot as in the past. She knows that I masturbate if she is not interested in having sex.
     
  7. srgreene

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    I just would never want my hub to feel a need to reach for his right hand. If I get too old to enjoy it, I will still want to be part of his sex life.
     
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  8. Maturemale

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    At the age of 66 and the wife 56 and we both enjoy making love alot still, and we have no barriers with one another, The only barrier is we do not share ,lol
     
  9. Barry Mandelay

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    We both are over 60 and I am the one who is still very virile. Her body, medically, is unable to engage in sexual intercourse or many other sex acts for that matter. It got to the point where she has decided to forgo sex altogether. She is much happier not having to go through the pain and discomfort of it. She has that right and I support her. What I do when I desire satisfaction is a number of things. The option of cheating is not needed as she knows and consents to my having sex with other women occasionally. I have several partners that are there for sex and sex only. They know there is nothing more other than sexual fulfillment. Bisexual or same sex relations are not for me. Masturbation and toys suffice for those in between times when I feel the need for relief.
     
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  10. PGA

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    I am around 70 and my wife 67. We are active in sex.
    I still have a lot of lust wich is more than my wife. One time intercourse in a week and sometimes twice is normal for both of us, but I masturbate may be one or three times a week. Honestly thinking about sexual matters is always occupies my mind . None stop sex desires is normal for me daily. The only way to reduce it is masterbuting which I am addicted for more than 60 years. I have injoy it as well my wife.
     
  11. ArtyB

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    I'm over 60 my wife is 55 . I have a big sex drive I think going to the gym as helped. My wife unfortunately is not the same although our sex is amazing. We have a open marriage and I do have sex when I can with her cousin and one other woman at my gym. I have not seen any different attitude from my wife so far
     
  12. PGA

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    When you married or have a partner cheating in any form is not right, because the stability of life is based on trust. If any of partner has high sexual lust, he or she can do masturbation. I believe it is better for your wife or husband to know that you masturbate, maybe he or she interest in masturbating together.
     
  13. PGA

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    Generally, sex activities are endless. It means as much you have sex, you like to have more sex. So, there should be some kind of controlling our sexual desires to have a healthy sexual life particularly when we are married or having a sexual partner. For these reasons, we should not think about cheating in any way, but if we have more lust or we are sex hunger and our sex partner can not satisfied us, we can masturbate to release our sexual lust.
     
  14. Daretobare

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    I'm 65, my wife 62. Our sex life used to be amazing but health issues, meds, maybe sexual boredom has all played a factor in a change where things aren't what they used to be. I know myself I've found an interest and acceptability in things I didn't think much about before. As I age I think I'm more apt to experiment with my curiosities. Her.... She lacks any interest at all anymore and can't be swayed.
     
  15. Panama Jack

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    I am 65 and my wife is 60. Retirement and maturity has it’s perks. It takes work and a commitment to stay sexually motivated and active. Yes, Seniors are sexual creatures and we are proof. We talk about sex every day. We are spontaneous and that helps a lot. We keep ourselves fit and control our weight.
     
  16. Just for fun

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    We are over 60 and my wife talks alot about huge dicks she'd had so I bought her a 2 1/2" dia dildo 12 in. long. I will watch as she has fun with it soon. I fon't believe it will fit though. It'l be fun to watch her try. We have regular sex not a whole lot of fucking but as many bj's and hj's as I want. She is always asking me if I need a tune up on my dick. It is great
     
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  17. Little Old Wine Drinker

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    I am in mid sixties with wife in mid fifties. We don't need sex as urgently as we did twenty years ago, but still enjoy it just as much when we get round to it.

    No help needed. I'd say that keeping weight off and exercise are far more important factors than age.

    For a while I felt insecure about erections but she assures me she can't feel any difference. I don't worry about it now.
     
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  18. Panama Jack

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    Agree with weight control and exercise. My wife and I are fit and stay active. We have no choice because of where we live. However, we have always been a sexual couple. We are always in a sexual moment. Even through the changes of life happen, we have been lucky.
    I will say sex is a priority in our house. Just like eating right, we have sex for our health. Me for my prostate and her for her vigina. Mental health and focus for both of us.
     
  19. Alman 66

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    Well i am 66 and the wife is 56 and we have a very active sex life,
     
  20. Just for fun

    Just for fun Live your best life

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    Today I pointed out a beautiful young ass in a bikini on the beach so my wife could also enjoy the sight. She said "ut oh, I think its time for a little tune up on Homer."
     
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