When I can't decide what to do, I make a double list of pros and cons. List the positive things you have with her and the negative things you wouldn't have if she wasn't part of your life. Also make a similar list of what it might be like, pros and cons, about adding a child, another human being, to the mix. Remember this child hasn't consented to be part of your lives, you both are deciding that for him/her. The only thing I've noticed in your post is how much YOU love the sex. How important is the sex to her? Or is the only the thing that is important is that she pleases you? And I didn't see anything about if you loved each other in any way. Sex is great and all the things you listed are important. But if that's all there is, how long will your relationship really last? Do you spend time talking? Doing things other than having sex? It almost sounds to me that she is willing to please you in anyway as long as she gets what she wants... and that's a baby. I think you two have a whole lot to talk about before you get to the point having a child together.
