3yr relationship ended.... asking for confort

hi sexaddict. .

try to concentrate on moving on with your life. Just think that it will do you no good if you still hold back to the past. Keep yourself motivated to move on.


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I just lost my girlfriend of 3 years as well, she got a new guy in about 2 weeks, moved completly on. She still lives in my house with my other room mates, so its really hard. i cry everyday, and i know exactly what its like.

 

You misunderstood my point. I'm not advocating purely platonic relationships. I think affectionate relationships are best neither sought nor avoided.

Either way, affectionate relationships, in order to be emotionally fulfilling, do need the platonic element --- the friendship. Whether something else develops or not, it's rewarding.

Casual relationships are just that, casual, and should not be used to fulfill emotional needs or anything of that sort.

I also think friendships can only be developed through shared productive experience. Not through socializing.

 

Just happened to me too 2.5 years. Relayer told you what you have to know i guess, was good advice.

Personally, didnt have a tear or nothing, found out god is way better than any girl haha...but when girl is god in her time then damn.

Shoudl wait a little bit if you still feel unstable. I mean, lookin for another girl. Some of them they just smell this and catch you in their net.

Should wait until you can have a blast while alone at home in my opinion. Free your mind, some active meditation or something, just stop thinking.

 

I totally feel your pain man. I guess some go about things in life alot easier then others. I dont even plan on ever gettin back with my exgirl, but im still so hurt inside.... I feel like she moved on like I was a 2 week phase in her life.

As for you living with your girl... I couldnt even comprihend being in that situation, just make the best of it man and GL

 

You can turn your pain into anger towards her. That or you can replace her with something to keep your mind off of her. Time will heal the wound as much as is possible. GL.

 

Right now im working on trying to find a partner.. not to be in a relationship but someone to chill with have a good time and if it goes farther then that ill decide on what i think is best.

Slowly days are gettin better, I just have constant thoughts all the time.... they just dont hit me as hard anymore.

 

I am in the process of finally getting out of a 7 year marriage that I think I was trying to get out of since we got married. I mean I have love for my ex, but I am not in love with her, and I have a lot of feelings of guilt somedays. But a t least we are friends, and are no longer torutring each other in a relationship that wasn't working. Some days are happy knowing that my life gets to progess, and then other days I am sad. It's been about a month now, and most days are happy. Don't worry seaddict it will get better.