Hey, guys! Well, right now I'm in the process of trying something new that may help other men like myself find a more profitable way of masturbation that contributes to sexual prowess and productivity. For the last few months, I've been experimenting on this idea but never really formed a dedication to it. This isn't a no-fap movement thread but a thread that promotes masturbation, but in a healthy sense. For 30 days, I will be discussing and jotting down my findings on the effects this type of masturbation has/had on me. I will talk about the effects it has on me in the bedroom with women, my own productivity, and more. I will be 100% honest and try to be as detailed as possible. I will also be answering question too. My Background I'm a 21 year old Canadian guy that has been hooked on pornography for the past 8 (maybe more) years. In middle school, I started to become a chronic masturbater. In university it got to the point where I started to masturbate 3+ times a day. I knew it was unhealthy but it was just too hooked on it I couldn't live without pornography. Throughout the years, I noticed that porn had a massive effect on my sex life with females in the bedroom. I came across problems such as inability to cum, lack of immersion, and more. Up until a month ago, I took it upon myself to find the a healthy way to bring myself out of that mess through healthy masturbation. What is healthy masturbation? No thoughts or fantasizing during the masturbation Light grip (no death gripping) Orgasming on pure physical sensation No visual stimulation Wish me luck! :afro:
This post I made a few months back in the "Men Have You Ever Masturbated To..." thread may tie into what you're thinking: I'd also recommend "mixing it up" with different techniques and degrees of stimulation. In addition to keeping things interesting, it could help break down ways you may have conditioned yourself to aggressively jack off with porn to achieve orgasm. Try different lubes and getting in tune with the subtle differences in sensation. (In addition to water-based lube, I've slicked up my dick with Vaseline, coconut oil, olive oil, hand lotion, etc.) Also try a lighter grip with no lube. I don't think it's been updated for a few years, but jackinworld.com is a great masturbation reference/resource. There are probably enough different techniques there to try a new one every day of the month, which might even be a motivational turn-on for you. Although my hand is still my most frequently used sex toy, I have a box with a few different ones that offer a range of different sensations on my shaft. Sites like drugstore.com, soap.com, and vitaminshoppe.com all have great deals on sex toys and all have some sort of coupon code for new customers (usually something like 20% off). Good luck. Hope you have a great month blasting out your balls. :2thumbsup:
I had trouble with a guy who masturbated too often. Maybe trouble is the wrong word. Sex lasted all night, but he couldn't cum. He had also been in a dry spell for quite some time before me. It turns out that if you do it too much, the body will forget how to cum with a partner. He quit for a week and came just fine for me, though sex does not tend to run till the sun comes up anymore.
