Hi everyone. Guess the title of my topic represents how bad my situation is. I've never been kissed or out for a date. It's not something that I'm religious or waiting for the "right guy". I'm somewhat insecure about myself as was teased by other people about my appearance -I'm mixed and I have some asian touch (eyes, cheekbones). Now I think what would make more unpleasant for guys is my virginity and total inexperience. Is it a lame? Should I give up? Thank you all.
Don't give up, but more should you just give in! Your not going to believe this, but your not old to still have your virginity! But your very lucky! Don't worry, you are ok! People who tease, bullies! I bet you have beautiful eyes! And chances are, the bullies were jelouse! Where in the world are you?
Not lame at all. And you should not give up! First of all, people who are proud about how many people they've slept with, usually have little else to be proud of lol Second, you have the opportunity to share some very meaningful moments in your life, with potentially someone very special, and possibly even your mate for life if your patient. Third, I'm sure your an extremely beautiful little bee and im sure you'll find a beautiful flower one day that will make you as happy as a bee can be
A society that places such emphasis on sex, much less judges people based on how often they have sex, is idiotic to say the least.
Absolutely not lame! There will be men out there wanting to take it from you. You should only give it up for one reason.....Love for that special committed gentleman who loves you back. I speak from the heart, my wife and I were both each other's first. I wear it like a badge of honor. Trust your heart and nothing else. It won't fail you.
Not to sound bad about my home country or blame these people: I'm from Russia. But moved to another country for a while. Ignore the previous message, it was my clumsy fingers!
A 25 year old female virgin is not a turn off for me necessarily. The reasons why are more likely a turn off (like insecurity for example). It all depends on the details and exact person of course in the end. Some insecurity is only human of course, and we all are to some extend. It doesn't have to be an issue. I guess it matters how you deal with it. A little bit of insecurity can even be cute and attractive (you know like blushing).
yup, one more problem is that I don't have any experience at all, I've never met anyone who'd find me pretty and "loveable".
It's not lame at all - maybe unusual but certainly not lame. It's like learnign to walk - some babies do it very quickly whilst others take far longer. In the end though, they can all walk as well as one another. Don't go looking for it - it will find you when it's your time...... PS. IF your avatar is a pix of you then you're a very pretty girl
Having no experience doesn't have to be a problem. It's also not that unusual to have no experience for someone in their twenties either. Plenty of people haven't. Most shut up about it because it isn't considered cool or even normal among a lot of peers. It's not abnormal either.
