23 year old virgin... help!

Sounds to me like your jealous

When it comes to lies i dont have the necessity to impress anyone the only people who i might need to lie to are cops.

Having read many of your posts you seem like a fun person and im not a liar.

 

well if it's true, sure. i just know that kind of thing doesn't normally happen, and that fat girls with low self esteem are more likely to jump into mfffff sex with random strangers than attractive ones are.

 

100% agreed can i ask have you spent any time in the UK ?

 

i have not. a night in windsor back in college, and a cruise to the bahamas when i was 4 are the only times i've left the US.

 

You may think it's a stupid thing to care about, which is your right. Just as other people have the right to think it's an important thing to care about. Other people should have their own views and opinions respected as long as they're not harming anyone in the course of doing so. If some people have a frivilous attitude towards sex, that's good for them, and I have no problem with it. So why should it be a problem for people who do have a frivilous attitude towards sex that others do not share that view, and see sex as something more meaningful? Everyone doesn't have the same views about sex, and I don't see what the problem is with that. Live and let live, as they say.

I don't think it's entirely accurate to say that a female friend is just a "woman who's rejected you as something more". I agree it could decrease confidence if you had romantic feelings for them, but this rings true for women as well as men. I think generally at least, being around the opposite sex is likely to increase your confidence around them, rather than decrease it.

As for the lovesliquid story, it was a lot longer before he edited it. lol And Im not going to comment anymore on it. Whether it's true or not is neither here nor there to me.

 

yeah, he has the right to feel any way about it he wants. i was just pointing out that at least in my case, advising toward hookers is based on my own beliefs, not my assumptions of his.

and no, that's not accurate of all female friends. it is of most though.

 

Oh well i hope you have a chance to leave the USA and explore the world.

I have a question for you why are American girls less prudent whilst on vacation ?

 

Your problem seems to be that you're under the self-imposed illusion that things are stacked against you.

What is the real problem here? You can't talk to women very well. Why? Because you lack confidence. Why? Because you're 23 and have never gotten laid. Why? Because you lack confidence. Why? Because you think that you'll be terrible in bed.

Most people are terrible at sex their first time, and the time after that, and the next few times after that. Do you play music or draw or anything? Chances are you were no Jimi Hendrix or Michelangelo the first time you picked up a guitar or a pencil. These things take time, effort, and practice.

Fortunately "practicing" sex is fun. If you find a lady who really likes you as a person, I would doubt she would be all that put off by the fact that you've never had sex, and would probably be more than willing to help you get better at it.

 

Because they get caught up in the idea of being somewhere else, where what they do won't be heard of by anyone they know, and they romanticize the situation? Just a guess.

 

I am inclined to agree with you :2thumbsup:

 

This is quite helpful thanks.

 

american female tourists are probably the most favorite kind among greek men girls let loose here beyond wildest imagination. my jaw drops

on a side note. OP I can help you, no problem :2thumbsup:

 

Are you offering a solution to Micro dots issue ??

 

That was a sweet stpry, props brother lol

 

And I wouldnt worry about being a virgin, I'd totally go for a virgin chick, just means shes gonna be clean, and clingy

 

When i first posted on this thread it wasnt my intention to tell this story but
when Iminmyunderwear mentioned availability my thoughts went to the other end of the spectrum.

Glad you enjoyed it

I hope Micro dots get laid because he deserves too

 

I was lonely for the longest time till I start to feel the onset of insanity because of such bad luck with women. Now I just laugh or feel nothing for the most point and loneliness feels small and insignificant. However this lead me to care less and felt much more compatible with other guys which I've had such a blast with. Hmm doubt that'd happen with most poeple so I'm not sure where I'm going with this, except that most problems are overshadowed at some point.

 

well, i don't pretend to understand women at all, but it seems like it must have to do with some subconscious desire to get knocked up by someone who is definitely not going to be there for the kid or pay child support and whatnot.

virgin chick and virgin guy are two completely different things...

 

Is it helping if I laugh at you directly? Because if it is I'll just laugh at you in private