2 pumps and he's done :(

Aw, awesome... lol. I highly doubt that he has time to think of another person in the span it takes him to get off. He slides it in, slides it back out, back in half way and WHOA.... I think I just feel that good

But seriously, he is getting better. To the person who asked his age, he is mid 20's but he has lots of experience. I really don't think it has anything to do with that. When he really gets going he's fucking amazing. He's aware of him and me and pays very close attention. Mm, it's great.

I'm going to check out the premature ejaculation page and get some more info or ideas but I kind of think it's anxiety. When he smokes up before hand all is well, very well. But first thing in the morning or on a sober night, nah. Won't happen.

By the way, again to everyone who keeps saying to get him drunk, he doesn't drink Drunk sex does not appeal to me. :ssmokeit:

 

He can learn to control that using Kegels.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q3K8FqGaI58"]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q3K8FqGaI58

 

Just keep practising!!!

 

Yep Viagra will helps with the going off too quick and also allow him to go again quite easily... the perfect pill. maybe he can then gradually reduce the ammount of pill he digests until he doesnt need it any more. He needs to realise he will learn to control it if he sticks at it.

 

Well I hope he at least gets you off via oral. He has PE and it was a nightmare for me. I had it when I was first sexually active and it can be debilitating. It got to the point I would not bed girls for fear of what they would think. I can not tell you how many girls wanted to bed me and I was terrified. Being average size, a grower with PE was not a big confidence builder. I really regret those lost opportunities. So I started to read and practiced a lot of oral skill ideas I had read about.

Two things he can do one you can help him with, edging when masturbating. When he does himself stop before you cum. Wait a bit and start again, repeat this for some time. It helps him learn to control. He knows you are likely frustrated, which will frustrate him if he cares about you. I always want to make sure my lovers have had a big O. As mentioned I am extremely talented orally.

If you want to help him talk with him and start the same edging in bed. It will take some time, but he only pumps a few times and pulls out. Work you to keep you happy with finger or oral. Then reinsert, a few more pumps till he is feeling it cum. Pull and repeat. It can be frustrating for you unless you want to help him and make it fun. The more times you do this the longer over time he will last.

Rubbing one off before sex, numbing cream, thinking baseball all of those things never worked for me. Exercises also do help, they help build his pelvic muscles. There are several types of exercises, Google it.

I was lucky as mature woman I met knew of my problem and wanted to be a FWB to help me out. We tried the edging many, many times and she liked my oral skills as well. I felt kind of proud when she told me one time I was the best at oral sex she had ever had from a guy. She helped me for about a year before you entered into a committed relationship.

I still see here now 40 years later and we both just smile when we meet. The main point is the lover has to want to help the man with a PE problem. Men can help themselves with hand edging. But the most effective is when a woman helps.

 

Back in high school I would always masturbate before I went out to insure I wouldnt have a hair trigger.

 

I find that if I haven't had sex few a certain amount of time, I cum faster if I get turned on really fast quickly.

 

tell him to think of Oprah.

 

Well, usually a bj before is the way to go, but since you said he can't get it up the second time, here's some other suggestions. (Some may have been mentioned, I didn't read every post.)

1. Cock ring.
2. Numbing spray.
3. Pulling out when he feels like he's going to cum, and waiting a few minutes. (This time can be filled with fore-play, oral on you, or whatevs)
4. Relaxation techniques.


Or just continue getting him high as fuck first. Whatever works.

 

Btw, does this usually happen with guys you're with? If so, you might just be tighter than average. It's both a curse and a blessing, but it's the cross we must bear!

 

LOL!!! :rofl:

...yeah that should do it!

 

I can cum quick or I can go for forever. I like the fact that I can control it. I look forward to cumming quickly. I think in some cases the girl likes it, she feels like your really into her.

 

Most guys cum pretty fast the first time. But after a few minutes rest, he should be able to go again and last longer.

 

Tell him to think about Don Zimmer.

 

Just keep on fucking don't let him out of bed till it done.Eventually he will build up stamina then u can get it on all night long. Either that or only play with him till he gets hard