Ive been looking into nudist beaches etc for me and my wife but I have one issue that I'm not sure will be appreciated... I have a problem controlling erections. The second I see or think of a naked woman (or man) i get instantly hard and it'd very difficult to rectify the situation. I was wondering how many of you suffer from this and if it affects the atmosphere at all when attending these places. Thanks in dvance Sent from my HTC One S using Tapatalk
The simple answer is that you cannot control erections simply by trying to will them down you will only make them stronger. Not as hopeless as it seems. Erections (Viagra excepted) rarely persist for very long and are usually easily disguised by sitting or lying appropriately. If you get one try not to flaunt it, generally erections are evidence of a desire for sex and a beach environment except in a one-to-one situation simply isn't sexual. Cold water works wonders so head for the sea and there it will soon subside. After a short time on the beach the problem just will not happen. Different men have different strategies which may help. You could try sexually exhausting yourself just before going to the beach which may help. If it's a CO beach keep your shorts on until you have got so used to seeing naked women that you are no longer aroused. Accept that if it happens you just try to cope as best can. Seriously though it unlikely to be a serious problem. I used to feel way but a naturist beach, even with gorgeous women, simply is not an erotic situation.
Let it be known that once you get passed that "erection problem" you will be hooked for life. You probably don't go naked outdoors often and that could be a reason for that problem. And like the poster above said, being sexually relieved will help greatly for new nudists. Good luck on your new lifestyle and welcome to the club cheers
I've seen woodies on World Naked Bike Rides, both on and off bikes, and seriously, nobody really cares (except of course the wowsers on the sidewalk...). On a nude beach I think society is enlightened sufficiently to give it a passing glance and move on. Same thing at a nudist resort; it can be personally uncomfortable and embarrassing, but it is a normal function, not something alien to mankind. On the beach it's a good idea to roll over Rover until the naughty weiner gets the message, or if fun enough, arrange a game of quoits with friends.
After the first couple of occasions you are unlikely to have them anyway. Sitting cross legged, going for a dip in the sea or rolling over to lie on your front are some of the options you have to suppress or hide an erection if you get one. Blatant flaunting is considered bad manners by many and more offensive by some.
I have visited nude beaches and nudist clubs, with my wife, and we frequently encounter guys with erections. Once we even stood and had a conversation for about a minute with a guy whose prick was sticking out, long and hard. We were both able to pretend that it wasn't there, which really put him at ease, I know! Later she and I laughed about it, but I was glad to know that she was not offended, nor, in my opinion, should she have been. If anything, it was a compliment.
I envy men who can get an erection; I haven't had one in many years. It's an inherited medical problem handed down to the men in my family on my dad's side, and it isn't important enough to spend money on a doctor who probably couldn't help me anyway.
