Hello I'm Ben. I'm 1.83cm tall and 75kg 'heavy'. I love all kinds of sport ( except swimming ) and my favourites are soccer and volleyball. At the moment i'm doing my abitur and afterwards i'm going to study medicine. My friends are my teammembers and schoolcomerades. I talk to many girls and i'm getting along with them. But..I'm 18 and I never had a girl-friend. I'm virgin and worse: I didn't ever kissed a girl in my young life.
Courage lion . you need courage to overcome the fear of rejection and the hurt it brings. But the other side of things is acceptance and love. Risk it and find a treasure. Be safe and lonely. It's not too late. I was a virgin until I was 21 . I have a 30 year old son of whom I am proud of today.
Hi, Ben! I'm Rose. I'm also 18, and I can sort of relate. I didn't kiss anyone until I was... sixteen? Around here, that is an old age to have an experience like that. haha The girl I was in love with at the time was with someone else (I had, perhaps stupidly, broken up with her too soon and couldn't repair the damage), so I basically used one of my best friends at the time. I didn't like her in that way and in fact found her to be a bit boring, but I was so hoping to be able to replace my ex that I asked her out. She was my first kiss and my first regret! Lol! She was a terrible kisser, good lord! Fast forward a bit, and I'm seventeen and still a virgin. I didn't want to be a virgin at eighteen. I just knew that I didn't personally want that. So, for that reason and a couple others, I hooked up with a stranger. It really did fix/help with a lot of my problems, and I'm now dating the man I slept with. It's not a solution for everyone, though, and it has the very real potential to be dangerous and even deadly. So, I'm not suggesting it to anyone here. Just sharing my story. What I mean in saying this is that there are a million different ways to be. You're not wrong or bad for the way you've lived so far. You probably just aren't right for any of the girls you know. Trust me, though, there is always at least one person who finds you attractive. I promise you that. Just because you haven't found anyone yet doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. I believed that about myself, but that's not true. Not about anyone, not about me, and not about you. Don't give up.
