17 and never had a girlfriend...

The older you grow without experiencing a relationship,
the more novel your life becomes.

Couples are the most boring people on the planet.
The second most boring are those who talk about their ex.

You're in a good spot =)

 

Except to each other. Single is good - In love is about 100 times better.

 

If this is supposed to be advice,
I'm afraid all you have done is twisted the blade.

 

I Am Curious As To What You Mean By This Comment, Would You Be So Kind

As To Elaborate....



Cheers Glen.

 

The vast majority of people fall in love.
Society and it's culture places so much emphasis on romance and sexual intercourse, that it is almost impossible to watch a movie these days which doesn't feature the frolicking of a pair of lovers (99.9% heterosexual, I might add)

Take a book like 1984, a bleak commentary on totalitarianism: Even George Orwell could not refrain from implementing a love story into his book, which really had no place there.

Dear old Shakespeare put it best:

"Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all"

Only a very small percentage of human beings ever can testify to the truth of this beautiful statement.

As society paints it's unrealistic picture of a romantic utopia,
as all your friends pair off,
as your requests to kiss under the stars are turned down,
you are left with a feeling.

A feeling that only so many people feel, yet it might be the last feeling you ever feel.

'Novelty' is 'uniqueness'.

On a tree for example, the leaves are less novel then the fruit.

Novelty is a quality greatly admired by the universe, it is rewarded in gambling for instance - when the odds are low the potential gain is greater.

Art thrives on novelty. Millions of people paint pictures, but the artist who painted something different, something novel, stood apart.

So if you're painfully single, the longer you remain a virgin, the increasingly novel you are..

 

You seem to be some sort of..... unisexual... Interesting. Do most people find themselves "hot"?:afro:

Organic veggies are totally hawt though. Especially home grown ones.

No I'm lieing, you're really fucking strange. Not in a bad way, I mean, if you where a girl I'd totally do you. But at least hide it or find stranger people to hang out with.

And don't just walk up to some girl you don't know and ask her out, duh... Gotta SORT of know her, just don't cement yourself into JUST wanting to know her, and not more... Also known as the "friend zone". I mean, find girl somehow seperated from her rabid pack, offer to sit and eat with, make conversation, ask to meet again. Or something.

As insanity wolf says, "She puts you in friend zone-Put her in rape zone":2thumbsup:

 

'Chu talkin' 'bout?

Of course it belonged there, the whole point of the book was that "love", the strongest emotion that most people think you can feel (and maybe it is, I dunno) and the one thing that winston had to try to piece his world and sanity back together with, was useless in the face of the state. Not only that, but it lifted him high enough to have something to lose. Had he been taken in right after writing a journal, what would it matter? He had nothing to lose. He found love, and lost it all.

 

Very true - and a very good overview of the book. Thanks.

 

I didn't kiss a girl until I was 23. Lack of self confidence will ruin you, break the cycle. Girls want to be kissed as badly as you want to kiss them. Find one and make it happen!

 

i like guys
=3
...anyway
the guy who made this thread is only 17. He's got plenty of time until he beats my score anyways.

Self confidence does NOT guarantee you anything by the way. You can still be rejected - on the basis of looks or tastes or someone else or some other bullshit.

The cold truth is that it's all blind chance and luck.

 

Getting into friend zone is difficult enough, since I don't see her every day like all her friends in school do. I also hate it when you get into a girls, "friend zone" end up falling hopelessly in love, and then finding out she "just wants to be friends." It takes to long, and ends up crushing your self confidence.

 

do what they do. it works for them, doesn't it?

date a rhododendron.

 

Well, I've dated mama ayahuasca, sure beats a rhododendron.

 

What, find a slut, fuck her, find another one, fuck her to, ect ect...
No thank you. I want love.

 

17 isn't exactly a shocking age never to have had a girlfriend.

 

With that attitude, ESPECIALLY at your age....

Your life is going to suck dick. Just warning you.

 

Try going out with a desperate girl, hot or not, it might work for you, also, do not set your expectation levels too high. The first girlfriend I've had was a super slut, I thank God I didn't get any STD's from her, but it was a learning experience for me.

Maybe if you went to the rave and took a couple of tabs and made-out with some crazy-ass rave chicks it may boost your self-confidence, of course I can't say that from experience because I'm only 16, although if I were 17 I would go to a rave and try that plan just to see if it works.

Good luck and happy hunting,

Swade

(Btw, I'm ripped and muscular and did 200 push-ups once in under a minute (although I was rolling off 3 double-stacks at the time) but getting a girlfriend is hard for me too)

 

I'm not sure you're EVEN 16, because you believe in "double stacks" and claim to be able to do a full up and down pushup cycle every .3 seconds...

Anyway, OP, don't look for love, just look for a good friend you can fuck... it goes from there....

 

What, so wanting to actually have a relationship and not just a fuck buddy is a bad thing? So essentially you are telling me that because I have morals and ethics, and care about what is right, that I'm not going to get a girlfriend? Damn people are shallow.

Oh, and Swade, I live in a small town, so, no raves in my area. I also don't do pills, don't know what is in them. I only do MDMA if it is crystal, and that doesn't come around to often.

 

You have no concept of love. It's not the "right thing" to go find someone to love, that's how you wreck your life and lose half your shit to some crazy slut when she finds someone she "loves" more. The girls who want "love" are the ones to AVOID, and the same can probly be said about guys. It's clingy people with issues or super misunderstandings of emotion. A good relationship does not need love, a good relationship just has the potential to evolve into love. Love is something that takes a long time and a lot of thinking and experiance. There is nothing moral or ethical about what consenting adult you have sex with and/or enter into an emotional relationship with, having a perfectly good sexual/emotional relationship does NOT require love, once again. You started this thread because you've never had a girlfriend, and you're telling me how much you know about love and morals? Damn people are pretentiously ignorant.

Like I said, you will have one dick suckingly painful life. Oh, did I mention your life is going to suck dick?