yeah he has a record too and was a heroin addict & alcoholic at the time haha we worked out not that bad, he ended up cheating on me but i stayed with him until he started to get worse into drugs and i started to clean up a bit (do mind you this was like 3 years ago) we still are pretty close and talk a lot and are all loveydovey. the age difference didn't really matter. i dislike numbers
I just have to wonder why all you girls seem to have gone out with guys who where 4+ years older than you. Seriously, what twenty-year-old wants to date a fifteen-year-old? It doesn't make sense to me.
Considerin' my mom was pregnant with me at 14 and my dad was shitting bricks that he wouldn't go to prison at 23, I guess I can see that age doesn't really matter in the natural order of things. However, the law does not take in nature or logic or love or youthful infatuation or any of those extenuating circumstances. The law just says it is illegal for a 14-year-old to have sex with anyone and anyone over the age of 18 faces big legal consequences and A LIFETIME OF BEING ON A SEXUAL PREDATOR LIST. Which means you can't find a place to live in Miami except in a colony of sexual predators who camp out under an expressway bridge on Biscayne Bay. I know this means nothing to young ppl in lust, but just throwing out the legal consequences from the real world. Sorry.
now that i'm older yeah i'm like damn what a creeper.. my last boyfriend he is about to be 21 but when he was 20 he got with so many 15 year olds that was one of my turn offs. but if you really like her i mean why not, i still really like the kid i was with then so i mean... you never know what can happen.
Nah, just because you find 14 year old girls sexually attractive doesn't make you a pedophile. Generally speaking they've already entered puberty, so they are no longer "prepubescent". Besides, you're 17 yourself. The age gap is THREE years. When you're 23, she'd be 20. As far as I'm concerned that really isn't a big deal. BUT, what I AM a little uncomfortable with is the following... Okay, if you think she's cool, then that's certainly not a bad thing. But is this attraction purely based on lust? Are there not any romantic feelings involved? There are SO MANY cool and sexy girls of all ages out there, but casual sex can be a tricky territory. I understand young people during puberty are generally quite sexually curious and often times eager to experiment which is fine as long as things are experienced safely. But if your friend is still a virgin, chances are she might like her first time to be special, with someone special who is willing to work with her and make it special together. This is something you might want to think about before you do anything. There's also the legal aspect of this whole thing, but I'll just encourage you to be careful. I'm just concerned about her potentially developing an idea that she'd been "used". If you said you were madly in love with her, then my reply would have been a little different. But since it doesn't sound like you are, I can't really say much more than I just did... All the best!
I understand you 100%. I just decided to get to know the girl, she is pretty awsome, so who knows; maybe something will spark from the friendship.
I just think its funny you feel like a pedo and youre only 17.. Its not really that big of a jump in age, like youre still a young man some old guy look at you, and HE'S a pedo.. so I dont think you have to worry
Nah, tis a small age gap. Means nothing in the grand scheme of things. If you like her go for it, just remember with the age may come the responsibility 'n all that.
^^ Re: age gap. Assuming puberty at 10 for girls, 12 for boys (change these numbers if you think they're wrong) She's been biologicaly adult for 2 years, he's been biologicaly adult for 5. He has 250% the adult experience as her. 250% is a significant difference.
Lol, that's being overly pedantic... And some damn awful dirty talk. Tell her that and watch her swoon. According those stats she would actually be biologically adult for 4, and himself 5. That's a smaller difference. But then take into account different people and the age they start puberty. Even still, it's just a silly concept. Am I assuming your profession is something in the line of risk analysis?
On my 17th birthday I lost it to my then 14 year old girlfriend. It was awesome. I miss the days when sex was new. Enjoy it like crazy.
