14 and almost 18

^ I think that's the best advice anyone has given! ^

 

I dated an 18 year old when I was 14..
turns out he was engaged. o.o

 

lol, its a plan

 

so far about 6 or 7

 

well hang out more and get to know him better show some interest in him and flert if u want to...taht's my advice make him make the first move if he has the guts for it if hes not too shy...if he is and you think its worth it you should make the first move...but then again its your choise im just trying to help out giving some options you can do good luck... :*

 

I just read into this thread and I thought I really wanted to say something. IMO, (with 2 daughters of my own) age should not be a factor to or not to date someone. I am 14 years older than my g/f. With that said, I am 42 years old, I have been there done that. I actually think 4 to 5 year differences in age work well. However, you are only 14 and he is ILLEGAL!!! I very much see this from a stricte point of view. Move on and enjoy the looking from a distance. You will appriciate it when you are older. It may suck now, but you (as a person) are worth much more. I realize that it is not that easy to see, but you will. Make friends, the satisfaction of getting a kiss (or more) from a good friend is much better and way more satisfying. Good luck.

 

It's only illegal if we fuck

 

Society sucks so it's laws and whatever, it is bad if he was more than 24-25 because you are not developed fisicly and psihologicly because you are 14, but he is 18 so it is not bad at all to date him it is only 4 years

 

...and if you think you are ready to fuck you can fuck nomater he is 18, it is not illegal if you fuck 17 years old, why to be illegal to fuck 18 what's the diference in one year?I feel no diference...

 

Well, please do not misunderstand. Feelings are a great thing. I look at my 11 y/o daughter and I know these kinds of things are going to come about. What I see as issues, may not be your issues at all. I understand that. Unfortunatly, I have age issues with someone so young. As we grow and develop, we gravitate towards people who we identify with and can relate to. The best piece of advise is to follow your mind and soul. It will tell you what is right and wrong. Knowledge is power and the more you know and learn, the better your decision is.