10 Online Things my Wife Doesnt Know About

1. I have better orgasms from masturbating to porn than I do having sex with her. (sad but true)
2. I like watching VERY kinky things on the internet when she isnt looking.
3. I love watching women and to be watched masturbating on my webcam.
4. I enjoy cybersex chat very much.
5. I have had phonesex with other women in the past.
6. I look at porn on my phone at work.
7. I write really naughty and explicit sex stories about my fantasies.
8. I have tried to get coworkers to get a webcam to play online.
9. I talk about my wife and how i'd like to see her with other women I chat with online.
10. I have been tempted to cheat, but never have (unless you count the above list).

 

Maybe communicating with your wife about your sexual desires might help. If you were able to communicate them with her you guys could talk through and act out some of your fantasies. There are a lot of women out there that would love to know what turns their husbands on, and would be willing to further explore those kinks. She might be a little repressed but I feel like love, especially the love between and husband and a wife, can work through any kind of issue.

 

wow hornyjohn, that list was so arousing, I think I just creamed my panties :X

 

Ive thought about that too and I think in theory that works. I just know my wife and the fact she only likes doing it with the lights off and laying on her back speaks volumes. The naughty things I think about would be too much for her. But I guess I cant be 100% certain without asking her. Still, I am affraid how she would react to know im into certain naughty sexual fantasies. So that's how they remain...for now.

 

Hmmm. Did these kinky fantasies of yours start recently, or have they been around even since before you were married? It could be fear on her part. A lot of women are raised to fear and dislike sex, so there could be some underlying issues there. I see women that are afraid of sex on a daily basis, (I work in a sex shop) but a lot of times with gentle guidance they are able to blossom sexually.
She might freak out if you tell her, or she might love you so much that she would be willing to try something new. You don't have to spill it all out, test the waters. Instead of lights off, try a scarf over the light. Missionary can be spiced up if she puts her legs on her shoulders. There are so many ways to subtly change things.

 

Whatever you do you should not NOT talk to her about it. It would be devastating if you ended up cheating on her. Lilith sounds like she knows what she's talking about.