“The lifestyle” - what a difference 7 months makes!

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  1. JM01

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    Less than a year ago, my wife and I had been to a swinger/sex club a number of times, and we had booked (but not yet been on) a trip to a nudist/lifestyle resort in Florida, but that was the extent of our experiences in “the lifestyle.” After rescheduling, we finally got to take the Florida trip in February, but still didn’t have any experience with other people. We weren’t wanting to swap, but we were hoping for girl/girl play or FFM (of course, who isn’t?!? Lol). Not long after that, my wife ended up having her first girl/girl experience, which of course was amazingly hot for me to watch. Fast forward to now, about 7 months later, and we’ve had 3 instances of playing with a single female (with another one in the calendar in a couple of weeks), and four instances of “same room” play with other couples. Still no swapping, by our choice. But holy crap, when I think back on what experiences we’d had less than a year ago vs. where we are now, it’s hard to believe.

    Given that we don’t “swap” (including that I don’t have intercourse with the other woman in FFMs), it’s probably no surprise that my favorite experience has been getting a double blowjob on a couple of occasions.

    Anyway, I guess I don’t really have much of a point to this post. I was just reflecting on what feels like an amazing journey in a short period of time.
     
  2. Scharff

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    Keep it going! that double blowjob is something on my bucket list!
     
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  3. Panama Jack

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    Our “Lifestyle” experience started last year during the Covid travel shut down. We were at a LS nudist campground with our RV. We used this time to learn and explore the lifestyle. As you know the lifestyle has many different levels. During this learning curve we decided to open our marriage up to include couples. We are tiptoeing, but so far we are very happy with our decision. Besides, nudity is very natural for us. We are member of a LS campground and travel to LS takeovers.
     
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  4. Curiousxx

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    This sounds very much what we fantasise about. I really want to have the experience of playing with another girl whilst my husband watches and plays with himself. Not sure how I feel about him having sex with someone else though (selfish I know)
     
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  5. Slacker Of Krypton

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    A lot of people are right where you are...I'd love to see my wife with another woman while I'm masturbating.
     
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  6. Micheal9

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    Same here. I don’t need to touch the other woman, would just be a joy to watch.
     
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  7. Panama Jack

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    Update from earlier post:
    My wife and I have moved forward in the lifestyle.
    We have had 1 soft swap and 2 full swaps. We both wished we would have started years ago. We prefer full swap. However, This weekend we have a couple that wants to do a soft swap with us. We are respectful of their rules. What’s not to like.., we will all be naked!
     
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  8. Curiousxx

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    Soft swap is a massive turn on for me, sounds perfect
     
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  9. JM01

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    Obviously I don’t know you or him, but I have to assume he’d be very interested in that fantasy if you told him!
     
  10. jimandjan

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    In our case it was only 1 night. After taking a while to break the ice, she was ready for more.
     
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